Ladies do y’all think that men understand that

[Marti]

us lookin at them and smiling is literally us throwing the first shot ?

I always see men saying how women don’t approach but if we are looking ur way and smiling it’s us throwing a hint

Every guy that approached me, I noticed them first and looked and smiled with out saying a thing

That’s like one of the oldest laws of attraction


Add ur opinion

 

[Dwolf]

This thread should answer your question
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/ever-been-oblivious-to-a-chicks-advances.105838/

 

[Dwolf]

This thread should answer your question
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/ever-been-oblivious-to-a-chicks-advances.105838/

 

[AquaCityBoy]

. That doesn't mean shyt.

 

[Jay Kast]

A lot of women smile just to be polite.

Not a one size fits all kind of comment.

If women were just upfront- it would eliminate a lot of the confusion.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

That's you tho.

Another woman might say she smiles at everyone and that's not a sign she is interested.

Also, these dudes are dumb. They gonna start thinking every woman who is smiling in front of them likes them. Even the cashier at the store who is just trying to provide good customer service.

 

[Caribbean lover]

Until you think she's smiling at you but then realize it's her friend who is standing behind you

 

[*Angel*]

My smile is a mask that means state what you want and get out of my face. Its my way of being polite.

For the guys I like I make it obvious in letting them know through flirting or my approach. I'm either picking their minds, being very playful or practically molesting them. Men like feminine attention and they like being approached. The only real obstacle is determining if attraction is mutual. Once you get passed that its whatever.

 

[BigMan]

My smile is a mask that means state what you want and get out of my face. Its my way of being polite.

For the guys I like I make it obvious in letting them know through flirting or my approach. I'm either picking their minds, being very playful or practically molesting them. Men like feminine attention and they like being approached. The only real obstacle is determining if attraction is mutual. Once you get passed that its whatever.

 

[*Angel*]

Its how I crossed the friend zone line with my ex. I used to specifically like accidently sitting on his lap (dik) and looking at him like . I was feeling him up before then so by the time I worked up to sitting on and grazing his dik with my hand (by accident of course) he knew what it was.

It works.

 

[Mac Brown]

Its how I crossed the friend zone line with my ex. I used to specifically like accidently sitting on his lap (dik) and looking at him like . I was feeling him up before then so by the time I worked up to sitting on and grazing his dik with my hand (by accident of course) he knew what it was.

It works.

 

[Yinny]

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[BrehWyatt]

My smile is a mask that means state what you want and get out of my face. Its my way of being polite.

For the guys I like I make it obvious in letting them know through flirting or my approach. I'm either picking their minds, being very playful or practically molesting them. Men like feminine attention and they like being approached. The only real obstacle is determining if attraction is mutual. Once you get passed that its whatever.

We can't have it both ways, breh. If we want women to be up front, we can't give them the when they do just that.

 

[BigMan]

We can't have it both ways, breh. If we want women to be up front, we can't give them the when they do just that.

sexual harrasment isn't cool breh

 

[BrehWyatt]

sexual harrasment isn't cool breh

Not in the slightest. That said you or I may not like some chick we don't know like that just copping a seat on our laps, but in the case of ol' girl and the dude she was after ... it worked and he was cool with it. She went about it a bit but from what she said, she had been handsy with the breh in question for some time prior and from what she told us, which wasn't much, he didn't give her the .

This might not make sense, but while we have an objective idea of what sexual harassment is ... if the target of the advance doesn't feel harassed or doesn't consider the advance to be sexual harassment based on his or her personal standard of tolerance ... then that's just how that is. It's subjective.

You don't have to agree with the methods -- and I don't blame you if you don't, because that would have been a bit much for me off the rip -- but she gave that man an obvious, clear as day sign to shoot the shot, which is what we as a gender have been asking to get for some time now. It is what it is.