Ladies can you show/teach me want being romantic is.

[Cynical Thoughts]

I already know the usual stuff like unexpected flowers. Or spontaneous stuff like special dinners or gifts for no reason.

What have yall experienced or what would you like to happen to you romantically?

Stuff ive thought off

1.Being awoke with a foot massage....
2.....




Thats all i can come up with at the moment.




Please

 

[CinnaSlim]

Just be thoughtful/considerate and do extra things that you think she'd appreciate. If you get something to eat and think to get something extra for her that's being romantic.

It's the thought that counts. Pay attention to what she likes and makes her happy

 

[Paradise]

Being romantic isnt about foot rubs and flowers. Being romantic to me is doing the sweet little things. I had a guy a couple of years ago come get me and he took me to see the Christmas lights. The week before I had mentioned that I love the lights at Christmas on the way to my house after dinner. He had hot chocolate and everything. I'll never forget that because it was soooo very sweet!

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

Just be thoughtful/considerate and do extra things that you think she'd appreciate. If you get something to eat and think to get something extra for her that's being romantic.

It's the thought that counts. Pay attention to what she likes and makes her happy

I feel that. But aint that kinda of a given especially someone you have been in a relationship w/ for a while.

Of course ima get her a two peice if i get myself food.

What do you actually like done to or for you. After a while the same old routine could/will get boring right.

What specifically do you like done for you. Something that i shouldnt know.

 

[CinnaSlim]

I feel that. But aint that kinda of a given especially someone you have been in a relationship w/ for a while.

Of course ima get her a two peice if i get myself food.

What do you actually like done to or for you. After a while the same old routine could/will get boring right.

What specifically do you like done for you. Something that i shouldnt know.

I like quality time. Deep conversations and physical contact. Making memories/ experiences.

But you're not in a relationship with me.

What I said above is what romance is. When you think of others before yourself. When making them happy makes you happy. You just have to keep that passion alive in your relationship.

Learn about your partner because everyone is different, what makes them happy. I would recommend learning about, the Five Love Languages (as well as the 5 languages of apologies). It will go a long way in regards to relationships.

I will recommend Making something instead of buying it, like food, a card, a gift etc. Use actual effort.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Depends on the woman you are dealing with.
Some women prefer elaborate displays of affection.
Like a moonlit helicopter ride.
Others appreciate simpler ways that might have more meaning behind it.
You have to kinda get to know the person, pick their brains, ask them random questions and see how they answer.
Like me personally flowers with the exception of sunflowers does nothing for me.
But by me a book I've been wanting or a little bottle of my favorite essential oil and that's means the world to me.
Its basically about knowing who you with and the many ways you can show your consideration and regard in order to make them feel special.
I will say that I can't think of one woman that doesn't like a nice spa day, just getting pampered for a couple of hours is a wonderful feeling.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Appreciate your woman
Tell her how much she means to you.
Do something special for her that's normally reserved for holidays and birthdays
Be kind to her
Make sure she knows that if something happens she can always rely on you.
Give her a body massage without expecting sex after unless she wants it
Give her a thoughtful gift. Doesn't have to be expensive but it does need to be something specific (ex.)If she likes to paint, buy her some paint instead of giving her something typical like flowers.
Take her to the beach at night and walk and talk. Maybe have drinks etc.
Do a candlelight dinner.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

 

[Taadow]

You'sa ol' Foreigner-ass dude.