Ladies: After an argument u give your man the cold shoulder

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cause you pissed off with him and don't want to talk to him for a cpl days. Do you get pissed when the guy doesn't attempt to call/text you? or do you find him to be a lil bytch with no pride if he texts you the next day?

women can be confusing because I've done both. When I don't call...apparently I'm fukking a side chick and being insensitive, and don't care about the relationship :wtf:. And I've also called the next day to apologize and was met with :childplease:

wtf do you want during this cold period? :mindblown:

personally, I don't call, even if I was in the wrong. I prefer to let her calm down and call me up when she's ready. I got things to keep my mind busy :lolbron: plus I'm not the one that's mad. :yeshrug:
 
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Have you figured out or asked her how she deals with a situation that made her angry....does she want to talk it out immediately? does she want to be left alone, and then come back and talk it out? depending on which one she leans towards thats how you form your after plan to text her soon after or wait a day or 2
 
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CrosbyAteHeathcliff said:
Depends on the girl I guess. I have friends that would hit you with that :childplease: for days.

Personally, I'm resilient and things won't bother me for long. After we talk about it, it's over. :manny:
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that's how I am. I like communicating and getting it out the way because I hate arguing period. Rather just get pissed, fight, an hour later have an adult sit down, but not everyone handles anger the same way. Some people run and hide, sulk in a corner, curse you, then come out the cave after a cpl days and act like nothing ever happened. That shyt is weird to me tho..but I understand it.
 
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I do the same thing if someone is upset I just do me and let them go through all the emotions then we can speak when you are ready....If you never want to speak to me again thats cool too :manny: I can end relationships in a flash no matter how long we've known each other or how much I love you ect... Might be the Scorpio in me :ehh:
 
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Women look at apologies 1 of two ways.

first way: Evidence that they were right and validation for treating you like crap until they have to be nice again.

or second: A sign of weakness and evidence that maybe this guy isn't worth being respected.


Truthfully i've found that its best to mirror the womans behavior whenever she feels wrong about something.
Most women won't cop to anything but will find other ways to make it up to you. be all flirty or do something nice.
other women will just try to act like it never happened and come at you casually like you are no longer in a fight.
depending on which method she uses you should use the same one.
Never say i'm sorry. just like never say guilty. it doesn't work it just give them added incentive to hate you.

So in OP's situation if we weren't talking for a couple days, i'd prolly try to act like nothing happened and invite her out to a movie or something as if we had been getting along the whole time. If it doesn't work try again later.
 
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