Ladies, a question about having kids and raising children

[Alvin]

What made you want to have kids with your partner
Did/will you plan it or will/did it just happen

 

[BabyGrl1990]

I know he'll be a great father. We've started planning for children in the future, and when the time comes, it'll be planned

 

[Tflasha]

I know he'll be a great father. We've started planning for children in the future, and when the time comes, it'll be "planned"

you don't say....

 

[CinnaSlim]

I want a child by my 30th birthday. I want to plan it but I wouldn't mind a surprise pregnancy as long as we alreadyhave a place, and savings.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

you know I'm not sure that the man is so relevant.

Yes you want to marry a decent guy but I'm pretty sure women who want to have kids have already decided that it's in their future. The man is a means to that goal. Happily ever after is a bonus

 

[Rawtid]

My daughter wasn't planned. Her father and I were FWB for close to two years before I got pregnant. Just based on what I've seen, I wouldn't really want to do it differently. Probably just plan the pregnancy for sure but I wouldn't want to be romantically involved with him.

 

[Yo Mama]

As shallow as it may sound. I wanted kids that looked like him.

Yeah there was a chance they might look like his uncle fester.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

His pull out game is weak

I didnt plan a certain age to have kids, but I know I wanted to have all my kids before 30. So I have 2 years to make a daughter happen, or thats a dub. Purely for selfish reasons. I dont want to have any small children(10 and under) my 40s or 50s.