After reading some of the threads in the forum, I feel like some of you young cats need to be hip to a motto that I learned at 21 that has taken me a long way.
Know Your Personnel.(KYP)
This is applicable equally gender wise, and it just highlights the need to understand the importance of what people you introduce into your life are capable of. If you KYP you save yourself the need of cell phone checking, or sweating what a significant other is capable of, or wondering if a chick/dude is worth your concern. You read a person when you meet them, tweak that initial read after spending time with them, and build a portfolio of their interactions, ideas, routines,etc. moving forward off of that.
I can say for my peoples and the folks I know, this philosophy has worked wonders, and so as a suggestion to some of you upcoming cats, embrace this motto. It makes life so much easier. Consider this my Bornday gift to y'all....
Know Your Personnel.(KYP)
This is applicable equally gender wise, and it just highlights the need to understand the importance of what people you introduce into your life are capable of. If you KYP you save yourself the need of cell phone checking, or sweating what a significant other is capable of, or wondering if a chick/dude is worth your concern. You read a person when you meet them, tweak that initial read after spending time with them, and build a portfolio of their interactions, ideas, routines,etc. moving forward off of that.
I can say for my peoples and the folks I know, this philosophy has worked wonders, and so as a suggestion to some of you upcoming cats, embrace this motto. It makes life so much easier. Consider this my Bornday gift to y'all....
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