I've decided I'm not signing the birth certificate. What now? (I gave up...)

[Sad Bunny]

Relationships happen. But we made a person. It was hard but I gotta be a father, and I have. Like... I'm not a bad dad at all. But I gotta stop looking at my Coparent as an enemy.

And I don't like her. So it was hard. But I'm working on it.

I appreciate your empathy.

Salute to you for stepping up 🫶

 

[Fiji Water]

Holding tight. I beat the case and dude got felony warrants out because he ain't show up. We gonna win.

 

[Fiji Water]

I give up. That's how it ended. I give up.

 

[Arianne Martell]

I give up. That's how it ended. I give up.

what you mean?

 

[Peak]

I give up. That's how it ended. I give up.

You signed it didn't you?

 

[JasoRockStar]

Stress is one of the primary causes of premature deaths of black men.

I say that to say protect your inner peace and mind above everything else. And I do mean above EVERYTHING else.

 

[fact]

I want to end this thread with a lot but a little.

No matter what, do not react emotionally. Save your feelings for your kid. Baby mommas be happening. If I treated everyone involved just a bit better, nothing would change. But id be better for it.

The other party will always view things as a contest until you surrender. Do it. Be a man and lose. You will win long term.

Dont ever give options. Be real and straight up.

In short, sign it! And sue if it aint right. The child matters more than anything.

Prophetic statement, that if you have the willpower to follow, would save a lot of these crash outs a lot of trouble.

 

[Mike809]

so did you get to do a DNA test ? is the kid yours ?

 

[Fiji Water]

The kid is mine. Got the test. Been paying preliminary child support and visitation.

But I moved outta state and shyt got weird.and she keeps making it harder for me to establish myself legally.

I'm done fighting for now.

This thread ends when my daughter can talk and seek me out

I fought everyone, paid every bill, waited on court and it keeps getting delayed.

I give up.

Tired of fighting the deadbeat stereotype. Finna just live AF. I love my daughter.

I mean I LOVE her.

But whatever. I ain't the first nikka to be exhausted.

She can cry in the nice house I eventually buy her.

 

[Fiji Water]

For those just reading, I moved out of state because her bf assaulted me. Probably because he thinks it's his kid. Which is weird, because I had her all the time.

 

[Fiji Water]

Prophetic statement, that if you have the willpower to follow, would save a lot of these crash outs a lot of trouble.

It's not a crash out. I've been so isolated that I don't think I can come back from it. I got an outside kid.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

For those just reading, I moved out of state because her bf assaulted me. Probably because he thinks it's his kid. Which is weird, because I had her all the time.

Why would you move out of state? You handed her custody on a silver platter right there? If he assaulted you he should be in jail and you should have a restraining order on him and her. This don't make sense.

 

[Arianne Martell]

The kid is mine. Got the test. Been paying preliminary child support and visitation.

But I moved outta state and shyt got weird.and she keeps making it harder for me to establish myself legally.

I'm done fighting for now.

This thread ends when my daughter can talk and seek me out

I fought everyone, paid every bill, waited on court and it keeps getting delayed.

I give up.

Tired of fighting the deadbeat stereotype. Finna just live AF. I love my daughter.

I mean I LOVE her.

But whatever. I ain't the first nikka to be exhausted.

She can cry in the nice house I eventually buy her.

OMG LMAO you are a quitter breh

yes inserting your rights on your child that you brought under fukked up circumstances is hard

 

[the cac mamba]

For those just reading, I moved out of state because her bf assaulted me.

embarrassing

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

I moved out of state because her bf assaulted me.

highlighting this so NO ONE skips over it


get chased outta state by your babymama's new dikk brehs