Dallas' 4 Eva
Superstar
You a fool if you pay for her childcare, don't make that mistake bruh. She need to pay for it.
I've decided I'm not signing the birth certificate. What now? (I gave up...)
- Thread starter Fiji Water
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If you pay for it, don't give her the money, you pay for it directly. Ion know her but ion trust her ass one bit. Keep all receipts etc in case she starts acting like an a$$hole about that too
Fiji Water
Every moment is an opportunity
Yeah, I know enough now not to give her shyt directly. I just order stuff and drop it off or have it delivered.
I get that it's an expense but I just don't see why I need to be paying for half of it. I don't mind helping for the overall good but I feel I should offer that.
She out here thinking if she buys something for the baby I'm supposed to reimburse her half.
It's insane how much this motherfukker is just in it for the money, basically. Like, damn. Everything has to be a lick.
Overall, I'm adopting a strategy of just saying yes to whatever and then doing it my way anyway. She really can't do shyt but yell and be mad. I ain't spending the next 20 years giving a damn about how she feels considering how shytty she has been.
I legit am holding off even forgiving her on a basic human level. I'ma show her how petty nikkas can be.
Lawd hamercy
humminbird
Veteran
I'm showing this thread to my nephew when he gets older and thinking about going raw
Dallas' 4 Eva
Superstar
Bruh how often do you have your child? 50/50 right? Don't you have expenses when your daughter is with you? Does she reimburse you half? You playing this all wrong if you want custody, she setting you up to be a lick bruh.Yeah, I know enough now not to give her shyt directly. I just order stuff and drop it off or have it delivered.
I get that it's an expense but I just don't see why I need to be paying for half of it. I don't mind helping for the overall good but I feel I should offer that.
She out here thinking if she buys something for the baby I'm supposed to reimburse her half.
It's insane how much this motherfukker is just in it for the money, basically. Like, damn. Everything has to be a lick.
Overall, I'm adopting a strategy of just saying yes to whatever and then doing it my way anyway. She really can't do shyt but yell and be mad. I ain't spending the next 20 years giving a damn about how she feels considering how shytty she has been.
I legit am holding off even forgiving her on a basic human level. I'ma show her how petty nikkas can be.
Sounds like your daughter about to get a sibling.Wouldn’t surprise me if she tried having you pay for other kids food/snack in the near future
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
yall both sound like yall both aint shyt, or at least aint got your shyt together...good luck
Fiji Water
Every moment is an opportunity
Well, I admittedly don't have my shyt together but I was pretty close. This bullshyt is just a setback I have to adjust to.
She was already doing that with the kids she has. That's why I don't give her any money.
Wouldn’t surprise me if she tried having you pay for other kids food/snack in the near future
I don't ask for reimbursement because that shyt gets messy. Trust and believe, like I said, I'ma just say yes to whatever she asks and then pat my pockets and say I ain't got it if or when the bill comes.
She'll realize soon enough that you can't have your cake and eat it, too. And I'll never be the nikka just handing out cash like that.
NotAnFBIagent
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That's half your baby, paying for half of necessities is standardYeah, I know enough now not to give her shyt directly. I just order stuff and drop it off or have it delivered.
I get that it's an expense but I just don't see why I need to be paying for half of it. I don't mind helping for the overall good but I feel I should offer that.
She out here thinking if she buys something for the baby I'm supposed to reimburse her half.
It's insane how much this motherfukker is just in it for the money, basically. Like, damn. Everything has to be a lick.
Overall, I'm adopting a strategy of just saying yes to whatever and then doing it my way anyway. She really can't do shyt but yell and be mad. I ain't spending the next 20 years giving a damn about how she feels considering how shytty she has been.
I legit am holding off even forgiving her on a basic human level. I'ma show her how petty nikkas can be.
Fiji Water
Every moment is an opportunity
It being a necessity right nowis what I was wondering about. The part I'm wary about is giving her the money as opposed to directly paying for it. Not trying to dish out 300 plus bucks a month to find out she ain't even in daycare, you know?
Fiji Water
Every moment is an opportunity
Y'all want pics tho? 
UWasntThere
Superstar
OP you sound like a good dude. youre doing the right thing and you clearly love this kid
this site seems loaded with a bunch of aint shyt motherfukkers who would dump a baby in a trash can
i wish you nothing but the best in life.
