Its funny how much society dictates wuts gay and wuts not

[Djimonu]

I went to the Democratic Republic of the Congo this summer and one of the things that kind of shocked me is how "intimate" men get over there. Im talking bout walking in the street holding hands, getting super close, basically the type of shyt girls do over here without being labeled gay but guys cant.

shyt had me mad uncomfortable when my cousin kept grabbing on my hand and shyt, putting his arm in mine, hugging me from behind.

But the thing is, obviously the guys doing it arent gay. And yall kno how homophobic Africa is, I dont even need to touch on that.

So yeah, just wanted to share that. I dont think I will ever see two straight men walking holding hands over here.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Actually: what's gay is one man fukking or sucking another. All the other shyt is people trying to guess who is gay by how they act in public. This is more of a "what's acceptable public affection" type observation.

 

[RAX 010]

All of that is gay sir

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

Saw that a lot in Ethiopia too actually, shyt bugged me out. Honestly I dunno what to make of it, you said you were in Congo well I know those rebel groups have been known to rape everyone, and yes I mean everyone.

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

hold hands and share straws brehs

 

[???]

Its not gay, thats african culture. Men hold hands in nigeria too, it's not gay.

 

[???]

All of that is gay sir

Wrong

 

[L&HH]

My homie went to Ghana over the summer and he told me the same thing about the holding hands thing as well

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

that aint society as a whole...its dumb nikkas who think everything is gay....

i blame camron...that idiot invented the whole 'no homo' shyt...

 

[???]

My homie went to Ghana over the summer and he told me the same thing about the holding hands thing a well

The thing people don't understand is that when you go to africa, you can just feel a different vibe over there.

The place is so conservative and not sexual at all, wearing a bikini is a BIG deal over there but holding hands is normal.

You have more sexual crazy shyt going on in asia and other parts of the western world more than africa.

Africa is the most spiritual place on the place on the planet, they believe a lot in spirits/sacrifices more than any other place in the world.

 

[???]

that aint society as a whole...its dumb nikkas who think everything is gay....

i blame camron...that idiot invented the whole 'no homo' shyt...

People don't understand, africa is not sexual at all. They don't even feel comfortable talking about it in public.

This is a place where people act like they don't have sex, I have been there many times.

Black americans/brazilians are the most openly sexual of all black diaspora in the world.

 

[Djimonu]

Actually: what's gay is one man fukking or sucking another. All the other shyt is people trying to guess who is gay by how they act in public. This is more of a "what's acceptable public affection" type observation.

Not really. This isnt about whats seen as publicly gay, its about whats seen as gay period. Even in private, straight nikkas wouldnt dare hold hands while watching TV or something. And they adopt a certain distance when they talk to each other etc. Its about what society has ingrained in our minds as behaviours exclusive to a certain sexual orientation.

I agree with you tho that those acts arent intrinsic to being gay.

 

[???]

Not really. This isnt about whats seen as publicly gay, its about whats seen as gay period. Even in private, straight nikkas wouldnt dare hold hands while watching TV or something. And they adopt a certain distance when they talk to each other etc. Its about what society has ingrained in our minds as behaviours exclusive to a certain sexual orientation.

Western world brainwashing.

Men also hold hands in certain parts of europe, asia and even south america and it's not even sexual.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

I THOUGHT HE MEANT HOLDING HANDS WITH GIRLS WAS GAY. I WAS ABOUT TO LAUGH.

HOLDING HANDS WITH DUDES IS A LIL TO ME. HUGS ARE OKAYISH AS LONG AS YOU FOLLOW THE RULES OF ENGAGEMENT.

ONLY TIME I'M HOLDING HANDS WITH A DUDE IS WHEN A MASS PRAYER THING IS GOING ON OR SOMETHING. AFTER THE AMEN YOU BETTER LET MY HAND GO BREH.

 

[Brandon M.]

why would a man want to hold another man's hand