Is The Reason Why Dudes Get Rejected Because They Go For The Girly-Girl Who's Out Their League?

[SirReginald]

I always wondered this.


In a way, back when I was out there out there I felt now I got rejected back then because I used to go out my league. When in fact people who have a certain level should go for that level.


For example, a dude who's a 7 should go for 6 and 7's.

Do you agree? Maybe dating the chick who's in your range or on your level is the better option. I'm no expert just asking.

 

[Henri Christophe]

Attraction is attraction.

Get in where you fit in.

Also.... If you were waiting for women to choose you or show interest.... You wouldnt be dealing with rejection.

You only get rejected when you cold approach women that clearly didn't show any previous interest.... Obviously theyre gonna reject.

Most women already got a man.... if she's not showing interest then leave her alone... don't interrupt her day

That's like cold-calling someone on the phone to sell a product.... they're going to hang up in your face because they weren't trying to buy what you're selling in the first place

 

[010101]

if cannot provide what she values you ain't never getting in*

 

[lamont614]

Nothing is out of your league king

 

[Arris]

Men are not gonna be out here holding out for women they think they deserve.

I see too many homely looking couples out and about to believe there's an overly large number of men opting out of relationships because they think they deserve something better

 

[Critical Distance]

There should be an instant mutual attraction if you're just going after randoms. If not, and you should be able to tell, better off going somewhere else.

 

[Vilify]

I'm starting to wonder if you're slow

 

[SirReginald]

There should be an instant mutual attraction if you're just going after randoms. If not, and you should be able to tell, better off going somewhere else.

For me personally, I like chicks who are on the same level as I am.

 

[-deleted-]

The reason why dudes get rejected by girls is because they go after girls not attracted to them. A girl should give signs she’s attracted to you, then you go after that. Anything else, trying to “win” her over after it’s clear she’s not jacking you, is a waste of time.

To all dudes out there, girls are interested in you, it’s just a matter of finding them and acting upon their interest.

 

[010101]

The reason why dudes get rejected by girls is because they go after girls not attracted to them. A girl should give signs she’s attracted to you, then you go after that. Anything else, trying to “win” her over after it’s clear she’s not jacking you, is a waste of time.

To all dudes out there, girls are interested in you, it’s just a matter of finding them and acting upon their interest.

simple*

 

[Bumblebreh]

For me personally, I like chicks who are on the same level as I am.

man eff all of this league and level talk as this shyt is not a video game so stop complicating things young breh.If she is feeling you,do your ting but if she aint,keep it moving.If she rejects you life goes on.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Yes and no.

Yes in the sense that people should stay in their lanes because not doing so, you end up with situations where 5-7s think they're a 10 because they fukked around and pulled an 8 one time, as a result they be like when they get reminded where they ACTUALLY are in society's consensus opinion.

No in the sense that ... you don't know who is actually in your league until you approach. Like, a lot of 9-10 women are out here lonely because people assume she's out of their league so they don't approach. Physical attraction is a huge deal, but there's more to it than that.

Take a breh who is objectively a 6 or 7. Average looking. Not offensive but not eye-catchingly handsome either. But he keeps in shape, and can make a woman laugh consistently ... suddenly that breh's an 8 or 9 depending on who is choosing. Works both ways too. A homely chick with an OK body may be a 6-7, but brings other shyt to the table that boosts the score in the eyes of certain men.

Point is, yeah, sometimes rejection happens because people punch above their weight class and step to people who give them the That said ... you don't know who is checking for you until you put yourself in front of them. Trial and error

 

[kdslittlebro]

Shooters shoot breh

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Attractiveness and looks are very different things.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Attraction is attraction.

Get in where you fit in.

Also.... If you were waiting for women to choose you or show interest.... You wouldnt be dealing with rejection.

You only get rejected when you cold approach women that clearly didn't show any previous interest.... Obviously theyre gonna reject.

Most women already got a man.... if she's not showing interest then leave her alone... don't interrupt her day

That's like cold-calling someone on the phone to sell a product.... they're going to hang up in your face because they weren't trying to buy what you're selling in the first place

yep....

i subscribe to the like who likes me theory

im not gonna holler at a bunch of women on the street....like you said most women dont even like that

i meet someone....she shows interest....if i think she cool....i make a move...simple