I like that song a lot. It's like that nikka Lupe be readin' my mind sometimes. Mom and dad always told me to address a respectable female as a lady, and any grown female as a woman, and never address any woman as a bytch.
I don't think that's the moral (your stated moral).
I think the moral is that all of society kind of plagues on the consciousness of people and their actions. Men AND women (especially of the black skin tone) tend to do a lot in cohesion in the degradation of womanhood. I think he also touches on how the white capitalistic structure profits off of us dumbing each other down and dis-unifying ourselves. A lot of this consciousness (or lack of) does stem from rap music (which he touches on), along with the way children lack that strong parental guidance/influence (another thing he touches on). One of the reason I've been falling off with most rap lately. A lot of it's not good for your mental state. I don't think I would let my child listen to rap growing up, or I would have to monitor it and explain what's right and wrong and make sure they know before trusting them with th deciphering that information for themselves.
I think it also speaks on men changing the way they refer to women/think of women, that way women will begin to reconsider the way they think of themselves. I think his overall message is that when both parties begin to think differently, only things can change then.