There's literally a trending thread right now arguing black men being fetishized is a positive thing and that you're gay if you're opposed to it?
I think it's just men in general being targeted, but being black they (gotta keep in mind internet ratios arent the most realistic) treat us like the crust on the bread. More than likely gone have to build with a dude if he didn't start off well off and for some reason there's a group of women that don't do shyt but the same jobs that women been doing for the past 50 years, but feel like they're above that.
Men get online and say they want a fine/bad chick that's not an ain't shyt bytch. That chick could be a McDonald's manager or the cook, but at least she got a job. If he looking for love and likes her he gone try to build anyway.
All these chicks saying they want a dude making x amount or trapping and gotta be 6ft and have this n that, and if you ain't got it then you just a peon to them. No time of day given. How many people's adult lives started with having everything they needed before they ever had to work for it? Breh work his 40+, come home and kick it or go out with his people and try to stay out the way. But because he just working retail he just a broke dude. If he told the chick she ain't even all that special, she would say he's attacking her tho.
When it comes to men vs women on dating, i don't really see colors. In the recent past all i see is regular bytches on social media not respecting the come up. Talking like they looking for somebody to come up off of them, and that's gone leave them lonely and whining like that chick having a meltdown Kuz she was 40 and ain't had kids yet.
Then, a chick will get a dude with money and go cheat on him with the mf from register 4 at king dollar. Or, she do the classic move and juggle a handful of men only seeing them when she need something.
But like I said, i don't know if i believe a lot these people on social media actually think the same way that they post online. I'm sure too many are really that shallow, but i don't think it's an epidemic. Most of them are just hoes advertising the requirements to get them to maybe stop hoeing