OP...
How does one “find” texts? Seems to me that those who find shyt is looking to find shyt....
Next, my answer to your question is...
Yes!
It is emotionally cheating, but I don’t even care to call it cheating..
It is outright deceitful as well as disrespectful among other things...
First, if your woman wants to sext someone, then the person she should be sexting with is you! If your woman is sexting someone else while she is with you, then perhaps she is looking for something that she isn’t getting from you, but in stead of her being a GAW with hers, she goes into teen mode and play silly games .
Lastly, if you “find” texts of your woman, confronts her about it and still is with her, then that says a whole lot about you than her...
Lastly, people will show you who they really are at some point in the relationship, so when you do receive your “moment of truth” and don’t be proactive in nipping the bs in the bud right away, then it really becomes pointless to even snivel about it because you are still dealing with her instead of charging her and the relationship to the game and getting with someone else who may be about her shyt, on some grown ass woman shyt...