Is It Rude to Insult your friend's Girlfriend by calling her Ugly behind her back?

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My long time boy got a new girlfriend who he seems to have fallen in love and my theory is

"if my friend is happy, then im happy" end of discussion


but tell me why, my other friend's black girlfriend was ripping on my friends new innocent pawg gf saying she hideous and overweight and if i were a true friend, i would sit him down and say he deserves better than a white girl

i took what she said completely wrong and said "yo butt the fukk out of it, dont talk about another man's girl, if he love her, he love her and you wrong for saying that shyt"

it became this big thing about im a p*ssy and not a good friend where is I dont believe in being negative when its not necessary, and especially not to the guys i grew up with. I feel this is an easy way to lose a friend, I dont think you butt in on a man's family or spouse unless they invite you in via an opinion


for the longest time, i been wishin my other friend would get rid of the black girl he with now as she just comes off like a true hater to any and all girls and he just sits and takes it


what do yall think? :manny:
 
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She is a hater. Why is she so concerned? Does she have to be the only girlfriend is the group? Unless the other girl is doing your friend wrong, it doesn't matter if he is fine with how she looks.
yeah man, he dont even live here anymore, they just saw it online on instagram or some shyt, she is a hater and i totally view her differently now mainly because she was being serious and kept saying shyt like "im just keeping it 100"

fukkin hood mentality :snoop:
 

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yeah man, he dont even live here anymore, they just saw it online on instagram or some shyt, she is a hater and i totally view her differently now mainly because she was being serious and kept saying shyt like "im just keeping it 100"

fukkin hood mentality :snoop:
I hate when people use keeping it 100 for the garbage that comes out their mouth.

You are not supposed to say everything that comes to your mind. Only the mentally challenged and children should blurt out whatever.
 
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I hate when people use keeping it 100 for the garbage that comes out their mouth.

You are not supposed to say everything that comes to your mind. Only the mentally challenged and children should blurt out whatever.
yeah i was pretty heated because we all supposed to be adults and growing mentally and emotionally and she still on some high school gossip rippin on the next girl shyt and i understand all women do that but i wouldnt want anyone in my circle ripping on me behind my back, people who i trust when we in our 20's

thats kid shyt
 

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My long time boy got a new girlfriend who he seems to have fallen in love and my theory is

"if my friend is happy, then im happy" end of discussion


but tell me why, my other friend's black girlfriend was ripping on my friends new innocent pawg gf saying she hideous and overweight and if i were a true friend, i would sit him down and say he deserves better than a white girl

i took what she said completely wrong and said "yo butt the fukk out of it, dont talk about another man's girl, if he love her, he love her and you wrong for saying that shyt"

it became this big thing about im a p*ssy and not a good friend where is I dont believe in being negative when its not necessary, and especially not to the guys i grew up with. I feel this is an easy way to lose a friend, I dont think you butt in on a man's family or spouse unless they invite you in via an opinion


for the longest time, i been wishin my other friend would get rid of the black girl he with now as she just comes off like a true hater to any and all girls and he just sits and takes it


what do yall think? :manny:

You told that mothafukka the right thing. Butt the fukk out. It's not her business. She ain't suckin his dikk. Keep your opinion to yourself woman!
 

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i tried, dude is the eptiome of simp and pushup, seriously
I believe it. Most women dont have those kind of balls unless their man is p*ssy. But more than likely your fried talks to her on the pillow about his friends like a bytch so she feels brave to just say what they say in private, out loud, which is why he doesnt say shyt, when shes poppin that shyt.
 
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I believe it. Most women dont have those kind of balls unless their man is p*ssy. But more than likely your fried talks to her on the pillow about his friends like a bytch so she feels brave to just say what they say in private, out loud, which is why he doesnt say shyt, when shes poppin that shyt.
yo!! this is exactly right, as soon as i started telling her off, he tried getting on her side even though he knows im right on the inside but its cool, thats his girl but its also proves he is a simp ass bytch and his girl wears the pants in the relationship.

if u were running shyt in your relationship, your girl would know what boundaries she should never cross
 

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yo!! this is exactly right, as soon as i started telling her off, he tried getting on her side even though he knows im right on the inside but its cool, thats his girl but its also proves he is a simp ass bytch and his girl wears the pants in the relationship.

if u were running shyt in your relationship, you would have your girl within boundaries that she knows not to ever cross
Before women really share their opinion they'll test the water like.

So what do you think of so and sos girl

If the mans like. OMG DID YOU SEE THAT bytch SHE FAT AS fukk fukk THAT WHITE ASS FAT fukk bytch!
Then his wifey is going to join in and from then on, thats just going to be how they talk about people. He has no power to stop her in public because for 1 he agrees with her and 2 he doesnt want to start checkin her and then her call him out. *babe, you were sayin the same thing :usure: * Ur boy is p*ssy but this chick is the worst kind of bytch. The kind that tries to come between homeboys because she thinks her opinion matters on irrelevant topics.
 

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i feel like theres a certain point where dissing a friend's girl is unacceptable. If you comment once or twice about how she's kinda hurt, fine. But once you make it a habit to diss their girl, then its like wtf.
 
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Before women really share their opinion they'll test the water like.

So what do you think of so and sos girl

If the mans like. OMG DID YOU SEE THAT bytch SHE FAT AS fukk fukk THAT WHITE ASS FAT fukk bytch!
Then his wifey is going to join in and from then on, thats just going to be how they talk about people. He has no power to stop her in public because for 1 he agrees with her and 2 he doesnt want to start checkin her and then her call him out. *babe, you were sayin the same thing :usure: * Ur boy is p*ssy but this chick is the worst kind of bytch. The kind that tries to come between homeboys because she thinks her opinion matters on irrelevant topics.
Yeah he a simp so he probably goes along with it behind closed doors but I feel like yall should keep your playfully rips in house and to yourselves then. He lets his bytch get too comfy with me and others where she pops off at the mouth too often and its always hateful in some form and she covers it up with "I'm just being real"

i feel like theres a certain point where dissing a friend's girl is unacceptable. If you comment once or twice about how she's kinda hurt, fine. But once you make it a habit to diss their girl, then its like wtf.
Yeah she didn't even say it jokingly, there was malice behind her comments like she was jealous or something. It wasnt your typical "hate on another girl" thing that ladies tend to do
 

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Obviously your boy sees something in her, so it's not in her place to suggest that your boy be told something, so you did the right thing. When you WOULD step in is if you saw her cheating or doing your boy foul.
 

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Obviously your boy sees something in her, so it's not in her place to suggest that your boy be told something, so you did the right thing. When you WOULD step in is if you saw her cheating or doing your boy foul.

I know this situation and @Dog Based Gremlin and its funny that yoou said that becuase we suspect that the broad who had to open her mouth is or would cheat in a heartbeat and that she is using him to take care of her child and pay her bills while she goes to school and he sacrifices :snoop: our friend is the ultimate simp
 
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