***Blame black men when the first lady literally says that a woman told her to gain weight.***
And no. If anything, a decent number of women don't listen to black men. Tell some woman to wear her natural hair, she'll tell you no, she's not wearing weave for you but for herself. Tell some woman to not fukk with pookies, she'll tell you no, she'll fukk who she wants. Tell some woman anything, she'll claim you're not her father and only God can judge her. Even if men wanted something, many women have shown and demonstrated to a considerable degree that they don't care what men want and will not listen to one and may even act to spite a man. I mean really.
I'm not mad or anything, it just needs to be said.