These are the women you should feel sorry for, not ex porn whores.
http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2013/10/05/inside_the_world_of_human_sex_trafficking.html
http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2013/10/05/inside_the_world_of_human_sex_trafficking.html
She poses on a bed, wearing pink lingerie and staring into the camera. “I’m young, I’m willing and I’m waiting for you,” reads the pitch in the online ad. “I love to please.”
Any suggestion of glamour vanishes quickly inside the seamy Scarborough hotel.
The hallways are fetid; it’s unlikely the rooms will be any better.
Brianne answers the knock, expecting to see the anonymous man with whom she negotiated sex-for-money over email about an hour earlier.
Instead, two police officers step inside the room — floral polyester bedspread, stained carpet — where the tattered beige curtains are drawn and a filmy camisole is draped over the lampshade in a sad attempt at atmosphere.
“We’re not here to arrest you,” the officer says to Brianne.
“We’re here to help you.”
Women who are victims of human trafficking don’t fit the profile you might imagine. Women like Brianne.
Many, like her, are more likely from a middle-class family in Richmond Hill or Mississauga than a poverty-stricken village in Romania or Moldova. And they’re more likely to be sold online than on a street corner.
As difficult as it may be to believe, these girls could be your daughter, says Det. Mark Benallick, who heads the Special Victims Unit, part of the Toronto Police Sex Crimes Squad. The unit deals almost exclusively with sex workers.
“What begins as a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship progresses to increasing control, until these women are treated as slaves,” Benallick says. “These pimps have the ability to spot vulnerable girls in a crowd at a bus station or on a downtown street and instantly know which ones can be manipulated with promises of affection.”
‘I’m still a child’
Brianne — not her real name — knows she could probably use some help. She has been on the move since she was 11, when her parents divorced and she left home.
Three years later, she was in rehab for alcohol abuse. There, Brianne met a man — 30 years older and now the father of her child — who would groom her and force her to earn a living in hotel rooms like this.
In the corner sits a ratty stuffed toy. Brianne says it belongs to her toddler, who was taken from her by child protection authorities. Now she sleeps with it.
“I’m still a child,” Brianne says, admitting that she moves the floppy-eared dog off the bed when she has a client because they think it’s “creepy.”
“I can’t drink . . . I can’t buy alcohol,” she says. “But I feel, like, 50 years old.”
Brianne is 18 now — old enough that police can’t prevent her from working as a prostitute. She’s legally an adult, but not old enough to do many of the other things that comes with being grown-up, like buying her own booze.
On the day Detective Constable Aaron Akeson, an officer with the Special Victims Unit, meets Brianne, she has already had four “dates.” It’s not even 8 p.m. She’s made $310.
Brianne’s family wants her to come home to Barrie, where she grew up. She misses her son, and takes solace in encouraging text messages from friends who know what she’s doing and are desperate for her to get out — “When I see (Brianne), I see a girl with endless possibility.”
Where friends see possibility, her pimp sees a commodity. Detectives see another victim of human trafficking.
Most people think of human trafficking as an international problem, but people don’t need to be moved across borders, or even across the street, to be trafficked.
The Criminal Code says if someone “exercises control, direction or influence over the movements of a person, for the purpose of exploiting them or facilitating their exploitation,” that is trafficking, and they could face 14 years in jail.
But human trafficking in Canada reaches well beyond prostitution. In 2010, the Royal Canadian Mounted Police began laying charges in one of the country’s biggest-ever human trafficking rings, centred on an extended Hungarian Roma family living in Hamilton that lured their victims to Canada with the promise of good jobs.
Upon arrival, the Hungarian newcomers, all claiming refugee status as they were coached to do, had their passports, welfare payments and bank accounts seized and were forced to work in construction for virtually no pay.
Canada’s National Action Plan to Combat Human Trafficking, launched last year, says “it is often described as a modern form of slavery.”
Low self-esteem
The mantra for those who work with women who have been trafficked — those who are trafficked for commercial sex are mainly women — is “force, fraud, coercion.” If those elements are present, in a relationship with a pimp, for example, then legally it is a case of human trafficking.
Michele Anderson agrees. The girls she works with at Covenant House in downtown Toronto share common traits: “They’re vulnerable. There’s low self-esteem, they’re disconnected from the family, they’re not doing so well at school, they’re disengaged from a positive peer network.”
And then, she says, they meet someone.
“A man who pays attention to them. Compliments them. Tells them that they’re pretty. Offers to take them for dinner. Spends money on them. Buys them makeup. Takes them shopping to buy clothes. And very quickly will say to the youth, ‘You’re my girlfriend. You’re my best girl. And I’m your boyfriend,’ ” Anderson says. “She will believe it.”
“She’s been looking for approval, she’s been looking for someone maybe to take care of her, she’s been looking for attention.”
The man will likely introduce drugs into the relationship and the girl may not have to pay for them at first. But eventually, Anderson says, the bill comes due and she is asked, then told, to do certain things. Pretty quickly, any pretence is gone, and the girl is working in the sex trade.
That is exactly what happened to Layla, which is not her real name, but the name she asks the Star to use. She is now 24 and studying social work. Next up is nursing school. But when she was 16, and living in Brampton, she met a man.
“I thought he was my boyfriend,” she says, simply. Almost a decade later, she still refers to him — two decades her senior — as her ex. “He was very nice at first, of course.”
But then it changed: he moved her from Brampton to Georgetown. He fed her drugs. And the sexual demands started: he asked her to have a threesome with his friends, then to have sex with him in front of other people.
“He would get drugs or money,” she says. “And I would never see it.”
He kept her isolated from her family. When she tried to leave to visit her father one morning, he dragged her from the car. If she tried to get away, he pursued her.
“I would leave in the middle of the night, and he would chase me, and throw me over his shoulder and drag me back to the house,” she says. “Or he would lock me in a room.”
Despite what she has been through, Layla is warm and friendly. She is in therapy, doing volunteer work in the community. She understands this man harmed her, yet she still can’t call him what he was: a pimp.
“I look at him as an ex-boyfriend. I accept that he exploited me. But pimp — it’s such a big word,” she says. “I’m sure I’ll come to that some day, but I’m not there yet.”
Skilled traffickers
Jolene Stowell, who runs an outreach program for sex workers at All Saints Community Church, is working with nearly two dozen women who have been trafficked — even if it’s not a word they recognize.
“Nobody has ever walked in here before and said, ‘I’ve been trafficked,’ ” Stowell says, as Layla nods. But the women she works with eventually understand that they have been exploited — even if it takes time to arrive at that realization.
She agrees with Anderson that the women who end up as victims of trafficking are vulnerable. But when asked, by Layla, what characteristic the trafficking victims she has worked with have in common, Stowell pauses.
“There really isn’t one,” she says. “People ask that a lot, because they want to understand it and prevent it. They assume there’s something wrong with you. But it’s the skill of the trafficker.”
Forget the stereotype of the velvet-clad pimp: these are shrewd entrepreneurs with a sophisticated understanding of complex grooming techniques designed to gradually assert control. The most exploitative are like psychology PhDs without letters after their names.
Professional pimps openly peddle their secrets of success in books that are steady sellers on Amazon, with titles like The Pimp Game: Instructional Guide andPimpology: The 48 Laws of the Game.
“Prey on the weak,” explains Pimpology author Ken Ivy, a veteran American pimp, noting accurately that most young women vulnerable to exploitation “have low self-esteem” and often are victims of some kind of trauma or abuse.
“A pimp looks for that weakness,” he advises. “Weakness is the best trait a person can find in someone they want to control.”
Life-changing moment
Tara Riley was 13 and changing subways at the Yonge-Bloor station when she heard someone — a grown man, 23 years her senior — shouting to her. Turning back to speak with him would change her life.
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