In what order would you improve your life ?

[Clay Puppington]

I'm listening to a podcast where the breh said he'll coach dudes on stuff, but they want to improve everything at once, rather than pick one thing and move on to another & end up improving nothing. With that being said, let's say you a breh DOWN BAD who is -
- $20k in debt
- 50 lbs overweight
- Little to No Friends
- Little to no Women
- Drug/Porn/Alcohol/Whatever Addiction
- Live with your parents

How would you structure yoself & get your shyt together?

 

[Collateral]

1. Lose the weight
2. Fix the addiction
3. Get out of debt
4. Get women
5. Make some new friends
6. Move out of parents house

Tbh none of that is really loser shyt. A lot of us been there, some been down worse than others. It’s all apart of the game.

 

[Freedman]

Stop Addiction
Lose Weight
Debt
Hoes
Leave Parents House
Friends

 

[Baka's Weird Case]

1. lose the debt
2. lose the weight
3. get some friends
4. addiction (i think this will happen more easily with the first three)
5. get out of parents house
6. women

 

[Taadow]

10 Life Values - XLV

 

[blockburna420]

i would lose 50 lbs being stressed 20k in debt. Prioritize moving out parents house. Find friends that i do drugs with to get bytches that'll change my life

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

Misread OP....on another note...nvm lol

 

[Jean Jacket]

Drugs/addiction causes all of those problems.

Priority 1 is getting off that.

Rest will fall into place.

 

[number21]

Stop the addiction. Lose the weight. Fix the debt. Make friends. Leave parents place. Get women.

 

[Gold]

I could lose 50lbs faster than any of that other shyt, so i'll do that first.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

I'm listening to a podcast where the breh said he'll coach dudes on stuff, but they want to improve everything at once, rather than pick one thing and move on to another & end up improving nothing. With that being said, let's say you a breh DOWN BAD who is -
- $20k in debt
- 50 lbs overweight
- Little to No Friends
- Little to no Women
- Drug/Porn/Alcohol/Whatever Addiction
- Live with your parents

How would you structure yoself & get your shyt together?

1) Get friends. Without friends you are going to struggle to fulfill any of the others, it's very difficult to change your life without support. Join a 12-step group, start going to a church (even if you don't believe, I've known open atheists who attended church cause they made friends there), find an online community for people with a shared interest, anything. But the first step has to be to find people to love who love you back.

2) Addiction. I think the reason goes without saying.

3/4) Debt and weight both simultaneously cause both will build and cause larger problems if you don't address them.

In terms of moving out or getting with women, give it time. There's no need to rush and it's better to play it according to circumstances than to try to force something.

 

[Crude]

Fix addiction
Get out of debt
Move out
Lose weight
Get friends
Find women

 

[King]

I'm listening to a podcast where the breh said he'll coach dudes on stuff, but they want to improve everything at once, rather than pick one thing and move on to another & end up improving nothing. With that being said, let's say you a breh DOWN BAD who is -
- $20k in debt
- 50 lbs overweight
- Little to No Friends
- Little to no Women
- Drug/Porn/Alcohol/Whatever Addiction
- Live with your parents

How would you structure yoself & get your shyt together?

I’m in a similar position. Def don’t check all of those boxes tho.

Currently I structure myself by making sure I go to the gym 5-6 times a week at least. Working out at least an hour and half.

I manage to stay out of debt by not spending any money and living on really thin margins. But moreso I know what to purchase and what not to.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Getting healthier and more active will naturally curve those addictions.
Start working on the debt.
Move out.

Newfound lifestyle will lead to being in a better position to get friends then women.

 

[Killigraphy]

Debt takes time, you can work on that while working out and working on an addiction, plus 50lbs overweight is nothing. You can walk that off over a few months.

Women come last whichever you choose.