Imagine being married to a woman who admits that you’re physically not her ideal man

[Crude]

Most of the time unless you got money, fame, or are highly successful you attract like minded people and people of a similar level of attractiveness.

You typically attract what you are. People be broke, out of shape, living in a studio apartment, but think they deserve someone whose easy on the eyes, fit, has money, and with a nice house.

That is not the way life or people work. Most of the time you get exactly what you are.

 

[Balla]

Yeah I had to read that again.....

That shyt hurts

 

[The Wolf Among You]

No one gets their ideal person, because that person doesn’t exist.

 

[Phitz]

It’s like that both ways especially when folks get older

Of course women want idris elba type and settle for killmonger

Of course men want Megan Goode but many end up with the double chin version of her

If men and women can read each other mind, there wouldn’t be any relationships in this world

 

[richaveli83]

 

[HE_Pennypacker]

The thing about these people who believe they’re so good for ‘settling’ is they don’t seem to realise their SO is settling for them, too

 

[newworldafro]

As long as there is no #TeamLegalizedBigamy2020...you settling for one less than what you should have

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Damn I'm too tall for her

 

[DuncanWebayama]

Imagine comin home from work to a bytch mad at you for a reason you cant figure

 

[Black Steph Curry]

Theres no such thing as "settling". You get what you can have. If you want a certain kind of person and you cant get them, you didnt settle. You just werent good enough to have them. :flydaffy:

Man if you ever watched tha looney tunes show that sounds like some shyt daffy would say

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Trust me, if a lot of you men knew your other half’s ideal type, most of you would jump in front of a train. The reality is brutal.

I appreciate Elle trying to alleviate what she said but let’s keep it real. There’s a reason why you see so many baby mamas. A lot of women would rather fukk the same guy who’s wanted by 100s than settle with a guy on their level. (Hypergamy).

They won’t admit it but you can see it all around you. Don’t just take my word for it. You see the baby daddy’s of most women, that was their type. Then you look at the guy they settled down with after getting knocked up.... it tells you all you need to know.

I know some women will come in here and dispute what I’m saying but the evidence is all around you.

And that’s why I’m single. I’ve only been in relationships with women I’m genuinely attracted to inside and out... but I guess the narcissist in me believes I can always do better.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

@Killmonger with his Napoleon complex again.

 

[HabitualChiller]

Most of the time unless you got money, fame, or are highly successful you attract like minded people and people of a similar level of attractiveness.

You typically attract what you are. People be broke, out of shape, living in a studio apartment, but think they deserve someone whose easy on the eyes, fit, has money, and with a nice house.

That is not the way life or people work. Most of the time you get exactly what you are.

I guess. Explain why I'm athletically built, goofy, and good with money; but I pull nothing but big women/no women.

I need some clarity.

 

[13473]

depends on what he's settling for.


race? no. i'm leaving.
my height? idgaf. he's gonna take these inches.

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

Deep down inside alotta men know what it is..they’re just happy to not be alone...