If you want a woman to respect & follow you, you got to be better than her

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Though women say they're looking for a equality or a man on the same level as them, don't fall for it. How can you follow someone that's on the same level as you? Doesn't make sense. If you can do as good as them, what's the incentive in following them? There is none. Any ambition woman with a man on her level, will always challenge him as competition. A lot of black women fight leadership from males, but it's instinctual. Deep down all women want a man they can trust to lead them properly, they act like they want to run sh:t, but most just don't trust men to lead w/o fukking over them and taking advantage, Especially black men.

When I say better, I mean be better in whatever she values or deems important. A lot of women it's money and/or imagine. Some girls like guys that are more socially outgoing then them. I think High School shapes a lot of our desires. You'll find a lot of shy/non-popular chicks still chasing popular type guys late into their 20s. A lot of these ambitious, money driving women only truly respect men that make a lot more then them.

There's a saying "don't ever let you woman spend too much time with a powerful man." They can't help themselves, it's instinct to desire good providers.

Usually average and below average women are more concerned with a great looking guy. They want to believe they are more attractive then they are and a great looking guy with help her delusions. Even if he's a bum. That's why there's beacoup unattractive women holding out for a great looking dude. They don't want a man on their level.

Fellas, you better stop listening to these women and find out what she really values and respect. If you don't possess that, she's going to leave you for a man that does
 

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and i agree you shouldn't waste your time on women who follow that ideology, the few good women out there who don't care if there man is a hard working janitor or a hard working doctor,, who submit to their husband, and encourage him and stick behind him if he loses his job are the ones you should aspire to be with everyone else should be :pacspit:"

they don't realize their shelf life is short
 

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That Plenty of Fish troll thread is proof of this.

When a man treats a woman like sh:t, a lot of times these women feel like he's better than her and she's attracted to that.

When a man treats a woman nice and kind, she views him as being below her and that's so unattractive.
 
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it's true.


gotta continuously demonstrate your worth and prove to be an irreplaceable asset in her life and you'll be :win:
 

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it's true.


gotta continuously demonstrate your worth and prove to be an irreplaceable asset in her life and you'll be :win:

eh not really you got to let her know that she is replaceable and never be afraid to sever the ties and never look back.

every chick i've cut off for either disrespect or because of nagginess, once they realize i wasn't their normal simp who will apologize and come back like a simp etc. they blew up my phone, my email begging for another chance and apologizing but nope

:smugfavre:
 

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That TROLL POF Thread was a eyeopener, even for some of us vets that know the game well. I thought I knew, but I didn't know how bad it was.

All of these chicks stated they wanted a respectful honest man and I'm a christian women. As soon as a dude with muscles asked them for some nude pics, they were sending them.

Knowing is more than half the battle in this dating game.
 

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eh not really you got to let her know that she is replaceable and never be afraid to sever the ties and never look back.

every chick i've cut off for either disrespect or because of nagginess, once they realize i wasn't their normal simp who will apologize and come back like a simp etc. they blew up my phone, my email begging for another chance and apologizing but nope

:smugfavre:

Sooooooooo how is this a benefit again?

The technique didn't keep her. Wether she blowing up your phone or you blowing up hers, the result is the same as if you would have "lost" (seeing as how you think you "won").

This strategy only could be considered successful if it kept them from doing whatever it is you don't want them to do (disrespecting, nagging w/e).
 

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Just aspire to be the greatest. The p*ssy will fall in line. I say it all the time. Look at how all these chicks gawk over musicans and rappers. You think "The Weeknd & Frank Ocean" would have people tatting their crews name on em if they werent singers?


Nah

All you gotta do is find what your good at and achieve the highest level of skill and prestige and life in general will be all good.
 

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Sooooooooo how is this a benefit again?

The technique didn't keep her. Wether she blowing up your phone or you blowing up hers, the result is the same as if you would have "lost" (seeing as how you think you "won").

This strategy only could be considered successful if it kept them from doing whatever it is you don't want them to do (disrespecting, nagging w/e).

because when you don't pander to their whims like every tom dikk and harry you are seen in a different light.

Um i did win, i'm the one who cut them off and did no chasing, and yes the strategy is successful because I don';t go back or look back, as a man if you make your no means no and sticks to your rules and regulations you will be respected.

a man who sticks by his rules and morals and never bends or breaks it for everyone will be respected
 

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You could have saved yourself some typing time by just saying that men should be themselves. If you have to put on for anyone or anything that does not fit you in your true element, you are doing yourself a great disservice.

:stopitslime:

Get out of here with that sound good "be yourself" bs. Men have to work and earn respect and everything else in life, especially black men. You have to earn and make yourself a man worthy to lead. That's with anything in life. You have to make yourself a boss. No one doing shyt by just chilling and being yourself. You're the reason my dudes are simps nowadays.
 

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Some women are strangely attracted to being treated like shyt.

If a woman is feeling u and u feeling her...the key is to have balance and know when to be firm with her and when to be nice...because if ur too nice, best believe ur ass will get dropped for another man.
 

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:stopitslime:

Get out of here with that sound good "be yourself" bs. Men have to work and earn respect and everything else in life, especially black men. You have to earn and make yourself a man worthy to lead. That's with anything in life. You have to make yourself a boss. No one doing shyt by just chilling and being yourself. You're the reason my dudes are simps nowadays.

When did being yourself begin to mean chilling and being a simp? Being yourself is being a man and standing on your own values. If you think a girl is pretty and you like her and she loves tattoos, according to your stupid logic you should go get tatted up to retain her even if it goes against your values.

When it comes to women, if you build it they will come. By being the best you can be, women who admire your features will gravitate towards you.

The way you are explaining things a man should study a woman, find out what she likes then "work hard" at molding himself into whatever stupid shyt she "thinks" a man should be all about (even though women's minds always change and they think emotionally not logically)

Ol Mr Potato Head ass nikka.
 
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