If you know your friend is being cheated on do you say it or just leave it alone

[The Unknown Hype]

I just found out that one of my old friends bf is cheating on her, with my sisters roomate(talking about close to home). Anyway my sister was gonna tell but I was like leave it alone and plus thats your roomate yall gotta live together. I know ol dude to hes pretty cool outside of what hes doing now. Imma just leave it alone but everytime I see her on twitter talking about her relationship being oblivious to it all it kinda makes me feel like I would want somebody to tell me. At the same time though we dont talk as much anymore so im thinking why ruin another girl and give her more trust issues, ignorance is bliss I guess. Yall ever been in that situation where you hate seeing somebody getting played but dont wanna get involved.

 

[MikelArteta]

Its better to not get Involved, many times the person knows they are getting played already.

However you don't want your friend to get a std. Etc. Just do it anonymously.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Make a fake facebook profile using the name Taylor Smidgenburg and inbox your friend

 

[StLady]

Its better to not get Involved, many times the person knows they are getting played already.

However you don't want your friend to get a std. Etc. Just do it anonymously.

have you ever watched Jersey Shore? Doing it anonymously is even worse

 

[yo moms]

Its better to not get Involved, many times the person knows they are getting played already.

However you don't want your friend to get a std. Etc. Just do it anonymously.

What kind of bytch nikka advice is that?

 

[The Unknown Hype]

damn I just thought about the std thing...still though. I might just tell my sister to make sure thats the only one(he even admitted that he had a gf to the girl hes sleeping with and my sis) or to talk to her roomate because that would be fukked up, I dont know if people that cheat usually cheat with more than one person during the duration or if ones enough.

 

[ugksam]

What kind of bytch nikka advice is that?

the shyt is true sometimes man. i got a friend who dates a girl that cheats on him, i wanted to be the "good friend" and tell him about it so i did and my friends response was "hmmm im going to have to talk to her about that." they are still together

some people are so lonely and desperate they would put up with someone cheating just so they can continue to be in a relationship.

 

[threattonature]

Yep, one of my good male friends. First warning sign came from me. I got way too drunk one night. She saw that I was a good dancer and asked me to dance. She was thick as fukk with a fat ass and the big titties. So I'm talking all kinds of shyt in her ear and the more I talked the harder she grinded back in to me. She was always mad flirty after that. But as me and dude got closer I didn't want to cross that line.

Sign two came while out at the club. Me and my boy was out kicking it and bumped into her and another dude at the bar. We saw them from a distance and they were all loose and laughing it up. After we talked to them her whole body language changed. She was looking crazy uncomfortable. She waits until dude ain't around and comes and tells us that he is her gay friend. Apparently she had lied to my boy cause she then leaves pretty quickly and at some point calls him to tell him she ended up going out with her friends to a club and ran in to me. That last part let me know something was probably up.

The final sign I knew she was cheating was on New Years. She always complained that he never wanted to go out anywhere. He was set to take her out on New Years. She kept hounding us saying you all need to take him out somewhere on NYE. I'm thinking she meant them. When I came to find out she meant only him I knew that meant she had plans to go out with somebody else. Cause what faithful woman that complains about her man never going out is going to pawn him off when he does actually agree to go out.

We laid the signs at his feet but he didn't believe us. Like two months later it came out that she had been cheating on him for a while. I wouldn't say shyt though unless you have the other person who's seen it there to back you up and would probably set a trap on him. If not dude can talk his way out of it and paint you out to be a fukked up friend and kill y'alls relationship.

 

[MikelArteta]

No I don't.

have you ever watched Jersey Shore? Doing it anonymously is even worse

 

[sanityovar8ted]

bytches used to tell me all the time my 1st husband was cheating and i never believed them, i thought they was just hating and wanted what i had which was half true. i finally lissened when a good friend was like i want u to meet somebody and introduced me to the girl my then husband was cheating on me with.

 

[threattonature]

the shyt is true sometimes man. i got a friend who dates a girl that cheats on him, i wanted to be the "good friend" and tell him about it so i did and my friends response was "hmmm im going to have to talk to her about that." they are still together

some people are so lonely and desperate they would put up with someone cheating just so they can continue to be in a relationship.

I had that shyt come back on me a few times. One where his chick was blowing up my coworkers phone after meeting him. When we showed up she ran and basically threw herself in dude's arms. I told my boy that shyt was shady and to watch her. He goes and tells her that I said that he needs to watch her. From that point on anytime she knew me and him were supposed to kick it she would have some emergency or something would come up that would keep him from going. I didn't see him for damn near a year until she ended up getting caught cheating on him.

Another was a dude that was the most faithful man I've ever met. We was in LA and I'm going crazy looking at females. He refused to even look at another woman saying "why would I look at other women considering what I have at home". Keep in mind his wife was fat as hell and not that pretty. She was doing dude dirty as fukk. Had another dude give her a ring that she wore next to her ring finger and they were talking of being in love. Our whole circle of friends knew about it too because she would flaunt that she was cheating. I told him. They made up and I was somehow viewed as a traitor for revealing it.

 

[Raava]

If that's really your friend tell. They will be mad when they find out you knew and didn't say anything...Unless you act shocked like you never knew, but what if they find out that you knew anyway? They will be even madder. She is going to find out an be "ruined" anyway. You might ruin your friendship by not telling her. She might get mad people never want to hear the truth but in the end she will understand.

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[BruhMayne]

the shyt is true sometimes man. i got a friend who dates a girl that cheats on him, i wanted to be the "good friend" and tell him about it so i did and my friends response was "hmmm im going to have to talk to her about that." they are still together

some people are so lonely and desperate they would put up with someone cheating just so they can continue to be in a relationship.

Visualizing the calmness of that response is hilarious

 

[The Unknown Hype]

sounds like if anybody needs to tell gonna have to be my sister since shes got the proof.

 

[AZBeauty]

I dont get in other peoples business and I dont want them in mines. I wouldn't say anything especially seeing most people dont end up breaking up.