If She's Career/Goal/Money DRIVEN she WILL NOT make a Good Wife and Mother. IMPOSSIBLE

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Society has convinced women and men that women are superwomen that can have:

Amazing careers (working hard, long hours, working some weekends, travel for work)
Obtain Advanced Degrees and Certs
Have a great social life
Dine at all the exclusive restaurants
Take vacations several times a year
Come home, cook and clean
Still be a great wife to a good Husband
Raise wonderful kids

How? :dahell:

When?:what:
No one can don't it all. :yeshrug: The whole house will be neglected if the woman has to work hard and is stressed out.
 

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Tell you another thing an old man told me, if your women has to work hard like a man, she will soon resent her man. She won't be coming home and be a nice soft comforting woman/wife.

Yup. Women in ACTUALITY want to work no more than 10-20 hours & don’t want to worry about bills. But majority, don’t mind contributing a little bit (0%-20%) so the man doesn’t begrudge them or feel “used” by her.
 

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:manny: just means she will not come after everything I work hard far if shyt go south and we can build together. I only date women with drive and money. I want a woman to want me for me, not what I can provide.
 

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Yeah I always wondered about the math on that equation, it ain't never added up. Can only stretch yourself so thin.
Tbh, allowing women into the workforce period was a mistake if you wanna take it there.
 

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Modern society is a head F, par excellence.

This is just another one of their tricks played upon the masses. Be in the world but not of it.
 

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Tell you another thing an old man told me, if your women has to work hard like a man, she will soon resent her man. She won't be coming home and be a nice soft comforting woman/wife.
This is true. My wife's job turned miserable, which made her miserable, and somehow it was my fault. Her quitting was the best thing ever.
 

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:manny: just means she will not come after everything I work hard far if shyt go south and we can build together. I only date women with drive and money. I want a woman to want me for me, not what I can provide.
They'll complain about a woman with no money taking it all in divorce. You found a way to make splitting half in a divorce not too bad. They'll complain that a woman with career and her own money will not be a good mother or wife. Then they'll complain about divorce again. Just a never ending cycle.
 

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Yup. Women in ACTUALITY want to work no more than 10-20 hours & don’t want to worry about bills. But majority, don’t mind contributing a little bit (0%-20%) so the man doesn’t begrudge them or feel “used” by her.

Exactly.

You can almost look at a woman's demeanor and tell is she's busting her azz at work. I know a lot of women and most hate their jobs. Truthfully I feel like they work sisters harder than work other races of women. We have a ton of women in my bldg and they sistas are always running around, scrambling and frantics. These CAC working in corridors chatting, giggling, flirting, smiling and speaking to everyone and taking 2 hour lunch breaks and all. Our women work so hard, they walk around with they heads down mad all the time.
 
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Tell you another thing an old man told me, if your women has to work hard like a man, she will soon resent her man. She won't be coming home and be a nice soft comforting woman/wife.
My uncle’s ex-wife told me this was one of the reasons she asked him for a divorce.

She hit 40 and all of her friends/colleagues were cutting down their hours to 20/25 at the behest of their husbands.

She was the only one still doing 40+ hours; she was disrespectful AF to him at home.
 
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