I need to give this playa life up ASAP. How'd you ex-playaz do it?

[Stuntone]

What's up playaz and ex playaz. Help your boy out.

I've meet possible my future wife. I think she's probably the best looking chick I've dated (she don't know how fine she is) and she's so cool, sweet, laid back and very humble. She's not pressed about going out to eat or clubbing, she's cool with just watching tv, even horrible stupid movies that I like. She the type I would just roll the dice and marry. I've had a crush on her for a year, we kicked it twice in the last year, but I didn't think she was feeling me, until last week. We've kicked it about 6 or 7 times in the last week and a half. Did I mention she's from the crib (Louisiana). Some of you know that nothing compares to a really sweet cool southern girl.

Here's the problem, every since I've met here, I've been trying to get rid of a lot of old flames. And they are coming out of the wood-works. I swear everyday I have at least 2 or 3 chicks trying to come over or get me to hangout with them. Everyday I have a few asking me what's up for the weekend, I've been stalling them. I broke up with my ex in January, I didn't want to be lonely so I just hollering and smashing so many chicks, now the shyt is becoming too overwhelming. I made a few cute me off recently but there's still a lot left. I think I'm in my prime right now, but I've been in the game a long time and I know that this kind of girl don't come around often and a someone's going to put a ring on her really soon. I think she's perfect for me really. It's been a long time since I met someone that has temped me to simp. And she doesn't ask for anything.

Coli, how does a guy get up the playa lifestyle?

 

[Patrick Kane]

Be with her and fukk other chicks on the side

 

[Julius Skrrvin]

yo dont even think the m word until youve been dating for a year breh

 

[Patrick Kane]

yo dont even think the m word until youve been dating for a year breh

A year?

I'd say 5.

How old are you breh? What's the rush to get married? (For the OP)

 

[Uncle Trill]

What's up playaz and ex playaz. Help your boy out.

I've meet possible my future wife. I think she's probably the best looking chick I've dated (she don't know how fine she is) and she's so cool, sweet, laid back and very humble. She's not pressed about going out to eat or clubbing, she's cool with just watching tv, even horrible stupid movies that I like. She the type I would just roll the dice and marry. I've had a crush on her for a year, we kicked it twice in the last year, but I didn't think she was feeling me, until last week. We've kicked it about 6 or 7 times in the last week and a half. Did I mention she's from the crib (Louisiana). Some of you know that nothing compares to a really sweet cool southern girl.

Here's the problem, every since I've met here, I've been trying to get rid of a lot of old flames. And they are coming out of the wood-works. I swear everyday I have at least 2 or 3 chicks trying to come over or get me to hangout with them. Everyday I have a few asking me what's up for the weekend, I've been stalling them. I broke up with my ex in January, I didn't want to be lonely so I just hollering and smashing so many chicks, now the shyt is becoming too overwhelming. I made a few cute me off recently but there's still a lot left. I think I'm in my prime right now, but I've been in the game a long time and I know that this kind of girl don't come around often and a someone's going to put a ring on her really soon. I think she's perfect for me really. It's been a long time since I met someone that has temped me to simp. And she doesn't ask for anything.

Coli, how does a guy get up the playa lifestyle?

 

[Still Benefited]

nikka I'm thinking you in a relationship you don't throw the baby out with the whole kitchen sink over no week relationship.....u shouldn't even be bringing up relationship until she does,keep her as sumbody you "talk to" for as long as possible.

And u don't give it up,u either keep fukin as many as possible until ya drive dies down which varies from person to person....and even then u still gon be tryna fuk other women or vice versa....basically if ya new potential girl like to stay in the house,then u stay in the house with her...that's what I been doin wit baby moms all summer...I'm to weak for the summer I can resist some of these hos in the winter time when they got more clothes on

 

[Stuntone]

I never lie on my dikk cuz that's a playa rule - Willie D



Dude, I'm in DMV area, I drive a nice car and look decent. It's nothing to have a 10 girl rotation.

 

[Costanza]

A year?

I'd say 5.

How old are you breh? What's the rush to get married? (For the OP)

i think its corny as hell when people are dating for 4 years and arent married... like if your with someone from 25-30.. and your not getting ready for kids or something your just wasting your time...

if you dont know u could marry someone after 2 years of being together... you got personal issues

 

[DallasTxRep]

Only way is to find the right woman, "the one"
But its easier said than done of course

 

[Cat piss martini]

make hoes wait.....it only extends your new car smell.
if youre feeling the chick like that and want to be exclusive
let her know that's where youre at.

let her know that you are willing to put the players
card up for a woman (her) that aint tricked dough,
been in the trenches or had at least 5 years took off her
lifespan so dont take this most delicious opportunity
in vain.

 

[Mowgli]

Find an attractive woman who obeys your every desire and protocol that you also enjoy being around andloving.

 

[Broke Wave]

Wife her up and just hit chicks on the side very rarely. Best course of action here

 

[Son Of God]

What's up playaz and ex playaz. Help your boy out.

I've meet possible my future wife. I think she's probably the best looking chick I've dated (she don't know how fine she is) and she's so cool, sweet, laid back and very humble. She's not pressed about going out to eat or clubbing, she's cool with just watching tv, even horrible stupid movies that I like. She the type I would just roll the dice and marry. I've had a crush on her for a year, we kicked it twice in the last year, but I didn't think she was feeling me, until last week. We've kicked it about 6 or 7 times in the last week and a half. Did I mention she's from the crib (Louisiana). Some of you know that nothing compares to a really sweet cool southern girl.

Here's the problem, every since I've met here, I've been trying to get rid of a lot of old flames. And they are coming out of the wood-works. I swear everyday I have at least 2 or 3 chicks trying to come over or get me to hangout with them. Everyday I have a few asking me what's up for the weekend, I've been stalling them. I broke up with my ex in January, I didn't want to be lonely so I just hollering and smashing so many chicks, now the shyt is becoming too overwhelming. I made a few cute me off recently but there's still a lot left. I think I'm in my prime right now, but I've been in the game a long time and I know that this kind of girl don't come around often and a someone's going to put a ring on her really soon. I think she's perfect for me really. It's been a long time since I met someone that has temped me to simp. And she doesn't ask for anything.

Coli, how does a guy get up the playa lifestyle?

It's hard to give you a reply based on what you wrote because we're only going by what you're giving us.

The way I see it you have three choices.

A) Get rid of all of your side pieces and focus solely on her.Which will be good if she lives up to everything you've imagined and bad if she doesn't. Because when you guys break up,you'll have to start from scratch.(Trying to get new chicks on your team...ect)

B) Go 50/50 and mess around with her while still holding on to your side pieces.Which may lead to you losing one,or both of them if either parties are not comfortable with it.

C) Introduce her to your side pieces and see if you can get them comfortable enough with each other,and therefore comfortable with the idea of having a 3-way relationship.Meaning you all dating each other at the same time.(note: this might be very hard to do depending on the individuals and circumstances.Whether they're straight,bi...ect.)

That's all I can think of right now.I would say your best bet is to not force anything, but allow everything to play out organically and see where you can go from there.

 

[newworldafro]

What's up playaz and ex playaz. Help your boy out.

I've meet possible my future wife. I think she's probably the best looking chick I've dated (she don't know how fine she is) and she's so cool, sweet, laid back and very humble. She's not pressed about going out to eat or clubbing, she's cool with just watching tv, even horrible stupid movies that I like. She the type I would just roll the dice and marry. I've had a crush on her for a year, we kicked it twice in the last year, but I didn't think she was feeling me, until last week. We've kicked it about 6 or 7 times in the last week and a half. Did I mention she's from the crib (Louisiana). Some of you know that nothing compares to a really sweet cool southern girl.

Here's the problem, every since I've met here, I've been trying to get rid of a lot of old flames. And they are coming out of the wood-works. I swear everyday I have at least 2 or 3 chicks trying to come over or get me to hangout with them. Everyday I have a few asking me what's up for the weekend, I've been stalling them. I broke up with my ex in January, I didn't want to be lonely so I just hollering and smashing so many chicks, now the shyt is becoming too overwhelming. I made a few cute me off recently but there's still a lot left. I think I'm in my prime right now, but I've been in the game a long time and I know that this kind of girl don't come around often and a someone's going to put a ring on her really soon. I think she's perfect for me really. It's been a long time since I met someone that has temped me to simp. And she doesn't ask for anything.

Coli, how does a guy get up the playa lifestyle?

I stop reading...


.......Just man up breh........ain't no problem, you create obstacles in every one of these chicks you find attractive with these threads. Stop with the instant soap operas.....just live.

Let us get a pic too.....







I should take my own advice

 

[Trajan]

Sounds beautiful breh.

Don't let these fake playas fool you into missing out on something special. These dudes prolly aren't seeing many quality females if any. Of course their advice will be biased.


I had a prolific run but slowed down recently. After a while you get jaded man. Especially if you're consistently out there.

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With that being said, don't throw your whole roster in the bushes until you're committed. You might need that backup before shyt becomes official. You never know when these females can flip the script on you.

Just take it easy and see where it goes.