I need help

[Krispy]

This guy has been bothering me for a year know, I've told him i'm never gonna date him, he's not my type, I've friend-zoned him brother-zoned him, I've even took the piss out of him to his friends but he just keeps trying. I need help, I really don't know what to do

 

[ADK]

Tell him you want to have 3 babies with him by next year.

 

[ROBEEZYKILLA]

tell him you have a std

 

[Raava]

Completely ignore him. Don't respond to him. Don't give him any attention. Any attention you give will encourage him and he will take it as you are interested. Tell him you aren't interested and don't giggle or smile. Straight . Don't contact him when you begin to miss the attention either. Just let it go.

 

[Mr. Negative]

Question: I don't mean any harm, but.....

if dude's such a bother, why did you first "Friend zone" him, then "brother zone" him?

Just tell him you can't be friends at all, and if he's still persistent, either get the authorities involved or have your actual boys/ male family members throw him in the bushes.

 

[Guy Incognito]

You women aint shyt!

 

[Krispy]

Question: I don't mean any harm, but.....

if dude's such a bother, why did you first "Friend zone" him, then "brother zone" him?

Just tell him you can't be friends at all, and if he's still persistent, either get the authorities involved or have your actual boys/ male family members throw him in the bushes.

I don't actually like being rude to someone who's not being rude to me. I feel horrible whenever I'm mean to anyone it makes me feel like a really bad person

 

[Raava]

I don't actually like being rude to someone who's not being rude to me. I feel horrible whenever I'm mean to anyone it makes me feel like a really bad person

That's how people become a target of being harassed. I use to be like that. If it is necessary I don't feel bad. Can't be nice to everybody.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Get a boyfriend that can kick his ass

 

[Mr. Negative]

I don't actually like being rude to someone who's not being rude to me. I feel horrible whenever I'm mean to anyone it makes me feel like a really bad person

fair enough.

but sometimes it's necessary. You'd rather be rude and hurt someone's feelings once than their persistence cause you long term bother.

you can't get through life and be happy without
1. hurting someone's feelings
2. being a bit selfish.

edit: : a BIT selfish and hurting people's feelings SOMETIMES. Some folks get carried away with the shyt.

Unless it's your child... never, ever, Ever.. EVER sacrifice your own personal feelings and emotional well being for someone else's.

ESPECIALLY if your true motive is how bad you'll feel if you don't.

 

[Krispy]

Thanks for the advice

 

[Mr. Negative]

Thanks for the advice

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

yall are a bunch of cock blockers.

OP, let him hit it.

 

[HoloGraphic]

I don't actually like being rude to someone who's not being rude to me. I feel horrible whenever I'm mean to anyone it makes me feel like a really bad person

It doesn't. When men act like this it is best to shut it down completely. It only ends up getting to where it is. If he is still in contact with you, he thinks he has a chance.

It's even worse when you "friendzone" and "brotherzone" him. Giving him false hope while trying to shut him out will just make him more aggressive. He's close but the lock won't open. He's going to stop trying keys and just break in.

Cut him off or tell him you met someone on the Coli.

 

[Mr. Negative]

Cut him off or tell him you met someone on the Coli.

he don't want these problems.