Actual lesbians, not the "hot chick" fantasies the media shows, have regular people problems.
Often the one who identifies as a male has anger issues from being rejected by family once it became apparent that they were gay. I think feminine men have the same anger issues.
My cousin worked the lobby of a domestic abuse shelter when he was in school. Lot of the women there were running from abusive female partners. I don't think I really believed him when he used to tell me that.