*Not my thread. Found it here (I can't stop thinking about the guy that my wife slept with. Does it ever get better? - Talk About Marriage). Someone linked the site in a thread earlier. I saw this post and I'm dying over here.
"Last year, I discovered my wife was having an affair with a co-worker. I discovered this because she was being very secretive with her phone. I managed to figure out her password and I logged in while she was sleeping. I saw plenty of explicit texts between them as well as pictures. What hit me the hardest was the pictures he sent of his penis. She made many comments about the size and what she wanted to do to it. This hurt because I'm not exactly the largest guy down there. She's always told me that it's fine and she is happy with my size. I'm glad she never complained about my size but seeing her worship and keep talking about his size, it hurt so much. I must say that this guy was pretty hung like a horse. I woke her up and confronted her with the evidence. She admitted everything and we cried together. She said she was just having fun but she did admit to having sex with him twice. I pressed for too many details and she said that she did give him oral sex.
After everything was out in the open, she resigned which is something I wanted her to do anyway so she can stay home more often with our son. She has been doing her best to be the perfect wife and she seems sincerely sorry. Still, it's almost a year later and I can't keep thinking about this guy. it hurts that she was so infatuated with his size and that's something I can never compete with. I've asked her about this and she keeps telling me that my size is ok but still, I feel like I'm inadequate. I randomly think about this and get upset. Just today, I saw her eating a footlong coney dog while we were at the fair and I totally lost it. I don't know what's happening to me and why I can't stop thinking about this but I need some sort of help or advice. Does it ever get better and how can I get this guy out of my head?"
#GMB
"Last year, I discovered my wife was having an affair with a co-worker. I discovered this because she was being very secretive with her phone. I managed to figure out her password and I logged in while she was sleeping. I saw plenty of explicit texts between them as well as pictures. What hit me the hardest was the pictures he sent of his penis. She made many comments about the size and what she wanted to do to it. This hurt because I'm not exactly the largest guy down there. She's always told me that it's fine and she is happy with my size. I'm glad she never complained about my size but seeing her worship and keep talking about his size, it hurt so much. I must say that this guy was pretty hung like a horse. I woke her up and confronted her with the evidence. She admitted everything and we cried together. She said she was just having fun but she did admit to having sex with him twice. I pressed for too many details and she said that she did give him oral sex.
After everything was out in the open, she resigned which is something I wanted her to do anyway so she can stay home more often with our son. She has been doing her best to be the perfect wife and she seems sincerely sorry. Still, it's almost a year later and I can't keep thinking about this guy. it hurts that she was so infatuated with his size and that's something I can never compete with. I've asked her about this and she keeps telling me that my size is ok but still, I feel like I'm inadequate. I randomly think about this and get upset. Just today, I saw her eating a footlong coney dog while we were at the fair and I totally lost it. I don't know what's happening to me and why I can't stop thinking about this but I need some sort of help or advice. Does it ever get better and how can I get this guy out of my head?"
#GMB