In order to stop being a simp you gotta understand how a simp thinks.
a simp is just a man that wants to take the safest path to the p*ssy. he doesn't wanna be rejected so he avoids confrontation and tries to get the p*ssy through non-confrontational means. the fundamental flaw with this is no matter how far out of the way you go when you go for the p*ssy you're gonna have to have the confrontation you tried to avoid anyway.
simps ask chicks that wanna fukk out on dates thinking that if they take her on a date they can fukk her.
where the simp gets bit in the ass at is that no man can hide his intentions before the first time he has sex with a woman. all men wanna fukk first and foremost and all women know this. the opposite end of the coin is its easy for a woman to hide her intentions. sure all women want sex but not necessarily from you. they could just want attention from you, could just want favors, money, companionship, a relationship, sex, the list goes on but a man can't get around the fact that he wants to fukk and he can't hide it.
the men that try to hide or mask those intentions are simps. granted some men simp on the back end after the fukk to keep the p*ssy going but most simps are simpin to get the p*ssy not keep it. because she can hide her intentions and he can't hide his the simp in in prime position to get fukked over.
back to the thread topic: how to stop being a simp is simple. always take the shortest distance to the p*ssy. always go directly for the p*ssy. don't do anything out of the way to get the p*ssy either just tell her you wanna fukk from the jump. granted there's gonna be a lot of women that when you're brutally honest like that they are gonna reject you. those are the women who don't want what you want. they want more than just sex. its a waste of time trying to go after these women so fukk it.