How does growing up without a mother affect young males?

[AgentGrey]

I notice everybody trashing the fatherless on this site (to the point that it has become somewhat of a meme on here )

But how does growing up without a mother affect the youth?


Personally, I was raised by a single father (now married) and believe that a woman isn't as necessary after the adolescent years of a males upbringing as the father is..

I've learned invaluable life lessons at 15-16 that some of my peers (now 20) still don't know, and I see some posts indicating that grown men miss out on these lessons by not having pops around.
Not every man can build a home from scratch, but damn I see some nikkas who cant change the oil or maintain simple shyt around the house. What happens when you nikkas get older and start a family
Are your sons doomed to a life of being dependent on other nikkas like women because your pops ditched you??

Trolling aside how do yall feel growing up without a mother affects the youth?

 

[Sugarbush]

May have a hard time respecting women.Your mother is the first woman you love...

 

[HoloGraphic]

#HardOnHoes

 

[HollowPoints2]

Raised by my dad after turning 8 years old.That was the best move for me b/c I'dbe dead or in jail if it wasn'tfor my dad taking over.

I was bad as fukk as a kid.

 

[Diondon]

Mothers are needed for nurturing in the early years. Fathers are needed for the adolescent to early adulthood stage to mold what kind of man you'll turn into.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

May have a hard time respecting women.Your mother is the first woman you love...

#hardonhoes breh. Moms can get the bushes too

 

[MikelArteta]

A mom is only needed for breast milk

 

[Mass]

They end up becoming pretty cold hearted.

 

[AgentGrey]

Raised by my dad after turning 8 years old.That was the best move for me b/c I'dbe dead or in jail if it wasn'tfor my dad taking over.

I was bad as fukk as a kid.

But what was different about pops tho, was he a better parent or were you simply afraid of him caving your chest in?


My pops never got violent with me, he just knew how to convey his messages in a way I could come to terms with. Im guessing because he remembers how it felt to be a teenage male.

May have a hard time respecting women.Your mother is the first woman you love...

Im not even gonna lie, this is true for me. I don't respect women that complain about a lot of stuff or want hand-outs because my mother was never that type of woman (from what I saw).
She took care of her own shyt, cut her own grass, carried her own groceries etc etc. If my momma can do it I see no reason these other chicks cant

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Not every man can build a home from scratch, but damn I see some nikkas who cant change the oil or maintain simple shyt around the house. What happens when you nikkas get older and start a family

In the grand scheme of things this is negligible.


I can do both these things but they don't really mean much.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I notice everybody trashing the fatherless on this site (to the point that it has become somewhat of a meme on here )

But how does growing up without a mother affect the youth?


Personally, I was raised by a single father (now married) and believe that a woman isn't as necessary after the adolescent years of a males upbringing as the father is..

I've learned invaluable life lessons at 15-16 that some of my peers (now 20) still don't know, and I see some posts indicating that grown men miss out on these lessons by not having pops around.
Not every man can build a home from scratch, but damn I see some nikkas who cant change the oil or maintain simple shyt around the house. What happens when you nikkas get older and start a family
Are your sons doomed to a life of being dependent on other nikkas like women because your pops ditched you??

Trolling aside how do yall feel growing up without a mother affects the youth?

Make sure you sons have them certs, that way they can afford to pay someone else to do it

 

[HoloGraphic]

I fukked up living with my dad. I had the whole place to myself usually and paid no rent. I lacked discipline on the upkeep and got kicked out. Got no slack with pops

 

[HollowPoints2]

But what was different about pops tho, was he a better parent or were you simply afraid of him caving your chest in?


My pops never got violent with me, he just knew how to convey his messages in a way I could come to terms with. Im guessing because he remembers how it felt to be a teenage male.



Im not even gonna lie, this is true for me. I don't respect women that complain about a lot of stuff or want hand-outs because my mother was never that type of woman (from what I saw).
She took care of her own shyt, cut her own grass, carried her own groceries etc etc. If my momma can do it I see no reason these other chicks cant

Afraid of him of him caving my chest in(he would slap me with open hand) was one of the main reasons I didn't step out of line. I had serious behavior problems as a kid especially in school and if my dad didn't straighten me up before adulthood,I would have been in big trouble by now at 27 year's old.

 

[Will Ross]

Dudes that grow up without moms are always looking for women to be that mother figure to them.

 

[GhettoTeK]

My mom was the man of the house and my dad was the stay at home wife so I had no father figure