How angry would you be?... Soldiers Wife Gives Up Child For Adoption

[KingDanz]

A Texas man is battling for custody of his first-born daughter after his wife successfully gave her up for adoption without telling him - to a family who now refuses to return the girl.

Terry Achane, 31, a drill instructor in South Carolina, says it was just days after he left his pregnant wife for his new job out of state that she quietly signed over their unborn baby to a family of seven in Utah.His newborn baby, whom he had wanted to name Teleah, was given to Jared and Kristi Frei, who now say the girl is theirs and won't give her back without a fight.

Mr Achane says that he and his wife, Tira Bland, were having marital problems not long after learning she was pregnant in 2010, leading to her decision and his now spiraling struggle today despite a judge ordering the girl returned to him last October.The now ex-husband says Ms Bland had suggested having an abortion or giving their child up for adoption - fearing she would end up as a single mother - but he said no, encouraging their daughter birth.

It was just months later in February of 2011 that Mr Achane found himself sent to Fort Jackson in South Carolina for work, believing he’d leave and come back a new dad.Ten days after his move, however, his wife went gave birth to a premature baby and signed away their child before cutting all contact with her husband.'I was like, "Utah? Where is Utah?" I’d never been to Utah. She's never been to Utah,'" Mr Achane told the*Salt Lake City Tribune*of the moment he first heard the bizarre and horrifying news.

Sent to live with Jared and Kristi Frei, who had spent the last few years struggling to naturally expand their family of five children, the baby found herself in the city of Spanish Fork.

Terry Achane: Married father's horror after wife places baby with adopted Frei family without telling him | Mail Online

The baby's mother, Tira, pictured, told the family in Utah that she was alone and scared during her baby's birth and wasn't sure if her marriage would last

Doesn't the father have to give consent for this to happen?

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i think the thing that bothers me the most is how the family that got the baby won't give the baby back when it's known that the one lady was shady about the whole event. that's just damn selfish and evil. it's a shame the guy has to not only put up with an evil baby mama, but now he has to deal with some white devils that wanna use contracts and agreements to somehow validate this foul event as if they're in the right. the baby isn't a piece of property to be traded...

 

[The Jewnited States]

i think the thing that bothers me the most is how the family that got the baby won't give the baby back when it's known that the one lady was shady about the whole event. that's just damn selfish and evil. it's a shame the guy has to not only put up with with evil baby mama, but now he has to deal with some white devils that wanna use contracts and agreements to somehow validate this foul event as if they're in the right...

yup.

 

[Silkk]

No Lie, If That Happened With My Kid. Somebody Gotta Die

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Looking at her non modest attire i think its obvious she still requires attention from demonic individuals and raising a child hinders that.

 

[ThaBoyBam]

He better make sure the kid is his? Might have lucked up here.

 

[69 others]

A Texas man is battling for custody of his first-born daughter after his wife successfully gave her up for adoption without telling him - to a family who now refuses to return the girl.

Terry Achane, 31, a drill instructor in South Carolina, says it was just days after he left his pregnant wife for his new job out of state that she quietly signed over their unborn baby to a family of seven in Utah.His newborn baby, whom he had wanted to name Teleah, was given to Jared and Kristi Frei, who now say the girl is theirs and won't give her back without a fight.

Mr Achane says that he and his wife, Tira Bland, were having marital problems not long after learning she was pregnant in 2010, leading to her decision and his now spiraling struggle today despite a judge ordering the girl returned to him last October.The now ex-husband says Ms Bland had suggested having an abortion or giving their child up for adoption - fearing she would end up as a single mother - but he said no, encouraging their daughter birth.

It was just months later in February of 2011 that Mr Achane found himself sent to Fort Jackson in South Carolina for work, believing he’d leave and come back a new dad.Ten days after his move, however, his wife went gave birth to a premature baby and signed away their child before cutting all contact with her husband.'I was like, "Utah? Where is Utah?" I’d never been to Utah. She's never been to Utah,'" Mr Achane told the*Salt Lake City Tribune*of the moment he first heard the bizarre and horrifying news.

Sent to live with Jared and Kristi Frei, who had spent the last few years struggling to naturally expand their family of five children, the baby found herself in the city of Spanish Fork.

Terry Achane: Married father's horror after wife places baby with adopted Frei family without telling him | Mail Online

Doesn't the father have to give consent for this to happen?

fukked up situation, but it seems like their messed up marriage and lack of communication caused all of this. the baby mom was scared of being alone and rightfully so cause my man wasn't even there for the birth of his child plus he moved to another state probably without talking to her about how they'll work that out, etc. but if he want his kid and didn't consent for adoption he should have it.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

He better make sure the kid is his? Might have lucked up here.

that goes without saying...

 

[Silkk]

He better make sure the kid is his? Might have lucked up here.

Yea she do look scandalous

 

[Jesus Is Lord]

No words for the anger I'll feel.

However he's lucky that he's not with her anymore because if she'd do some dumb shyt like that, then imagine the other things she'd do. Won't be surprised if it 's not his.

 

[marcuz]

knowing black women, the baby probably isn't even his.

 

[CoolazzFemale]

so what really happened?.
has to be more to this story.

 

[Po pimp]

knowing black women, the baby probably isn't even his.

This is probably what it is, but I'm not gonna single out black women as being the sole culprit

 

[Malta]

My reaction

 

[Greenstrings]

fukked up situation, but it seems like their messed up marriage and lack of communication caused all of this. the baby mom was scared of being alone and rightfully so cause my man wasn't even there for the birth of his child plus he moved to another state probably without talking to her about how they'll work that out, etc. but if he want his kid and didn't consent for adoption he should have it.

It says she gave birth prematurely, so the chances are he left expecting the baby to be born when he got back, otherwise why would he be so confused?

We have no idea what communication passed between the two within that time so the speculative shyt about him not saying how they'll work it out is unfounded nonsense.

The fact that she gave that baby up so easily, regardless of whatever was going on with dude, should tell you enough.

And @Mr. Somebody, nikka shut the fukk up.