His_Excellence_Reincar: how do you feel about a man relocating jobs for a chick?

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Gator where you been lately breh? :lupe:

I be working and chilling with my roommate on the week days

and with my girl on the weekends

The Coli isn't my all anymore :to:

huge fail

why do you say that?

then you gonna get out there, she leaves your ass and then you're in a city where you know no one at a job you probably wouldn't have normally taken.

Yeah a lot of ppl do that and fukk up

but -- my situation isn't like that though.

I'm going to a city where all of my childhood friends, some college friends and family is at.

And i would NOT accept a job I don't really want.
 

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I'd advise you don't do it.

1. Are you going to have a job down there?
2. Sorry this isn't working out, suddenly your stuck alone in a City you have no friends or family
3. Never sacrifice your happiness or way of life for a chick, because they won't for you


Only move if you want to move not because of some chick.

Especially someone your not married to, or don't have kids with.
 

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I'd advise you don't do it.

1. Are you going to have a job down there?
2. Sorry this isn't working out, suddenly your stuck alone in a City you have no friends or family
3. Never sacrifice your happiness or way of life for a chick, because they won't for you


Only move if you want to move not because of some chick.

Especially someone your not married to, or don't have kids with.
Here's the scoop:

I'm going to a city where all of my childhood friends, some college friends and family is at. I grew up there.

I would NOT accept a job I don't really want. I'm looking to enter a new field of work that pays more and is more stable.

We do want to move together and get a house and all of that as well.

I really wouldn't settle for a job that I don't really want.
 

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But I'd it wasn't foe this girl would you move back there?

Your young think it through breh.

Take it from a guy who dropped out of law school to start working when I was engaged soit wwouldn't be Ramon noodles every night when I got married. I'll never sacrifice anything for a woman that aint my mom

I be working and chilling with my roommate on the week days

and with my girl on the weekends

The Coli isn't my all anymore :to:



why do you say that?



Yeah a lot of ppl do that and fukk up

but -- my situation isn't like that though.

I'm going to a city where all of my childhood friends, some college friends and family is at.

And i would NOT accept a job I don't really want.
 

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But I'd it wasn't foe this girl would you move back there?

Your young think it through breh.

Take it from a guy who dropped out of law school to start working when I was engaged soit wwouldn't be Ramon noodles every night when I got married. I'll never sacrifice anything for a woman that aint my mom

you went law school ? :ohhh:
 

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But I'd it wasn't for this girl would you move back there?

Your young think it through breh.

Take it from a guy who dropped out of law school to start working when I was engaged soit wwouldn't be Ramon noodles every night when I got married. I'll never sacrifice anything for a woman that aint my mom

Truthfully: I don't know. I kind of want to because I miss my family and seeing my nieces and nephews grow up.

I literally go to the city every weekend to see friends, my girl or family.

I"m there from Friday-Monday almost every weekend.

I got a call for a job making $1,000 more per year than I currently do. I just can't accept that. Not worth relocating for a girl.

I'm in love, but I'm not DUMB
 

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Why not ask her to move.
If she won't sacrifice for you dont for her.

Because it really does make sense for me to go to the bigger city where she's at.

More jobs, more opportunities, etc...big stars actually go there for concerts lol

I'm in a small ass city north of her (only 60 minutes away)
 
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