Have you guys ever gotten to the point...

[ReggieFlare]

Where you don't really like going out as much? I got homies that STAY wanting me to go to this party or that party, this event or that event...I don't know when it started happening but I'm just not in the mood for that shyt anymore. Honestly I'm good with just sparking a blunt and hanging out.

I usually just chill in my room, focus on my craft (programming) and maybe hit up a kickback here and there. Kicking it with some broads is okay from time to time too. But my boys...they always want to go out and do all that high profile stuff. It's gotten to the point where one of em (who I consider my right-hand) is like "You changing bruh, you don't want to do anything anymore!"

A part of me is like yall nikkas need to chill out

But another part is wondering if this is normal. What do you guys think?

 

[Danny Up]

That shyt gets old.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i'm at that point now. but i have to go out because i have to perform. i'm also tired of random drunk, usually white, women. but now i don't go out unless i have to. before i would go out because i'd get bored at home. now, i only do it when i have to...

 

[M617]

yeah im there now esp since im just getting better from a concussion and havent been going out at all the last 4 months and know when i go back i will be at a slower pace


before i got hurt though i noticed i hit it hard at the clubs from 20-24 and 25&26 ive noticed i like more bar type lounges and house gatherings. a few years ago i used to go out both nights of the weekend and sometimes during the week. now it will be 1 night on the weekend and if i skip a weekend and just chill i have no problem with that at all

i can have just as much fun chilling at home and making the best of my weekend days as going out. i like to even drink by myself

 

[ReggieFlare]

i can have just as much fun chilling at home and making the best of my weekend days as going out. i like to even drink by myself

That's what I'm saying. But it seems like no one else sees me on this

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

i been off that going out tip for a long time.
when i was in college i would rather chop it up in my dorm or my apartment.
going out to the bar or club was money i didn't have. burning an 8th or kicking back some 40's with my boys and some chicks was always good times.

i'm older now.
when i chill with people i usually invite them to my crib and BBQ for them, get shyt faced and either invite them to sleep over or tell them how to get to the train if they don't wanna get a cab.

 

[Roger Sterling]

Bad news, friend (no Mr. Scumbody),

You're getting old.

I feel your pain.

 

[ReggieFlare]

Bad news, friend (no Mr. Scumbody),

You're getting old.

I feel your pain.

Bu-bu-but I'm about to be 21

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Im at the point now.Its alot of energy to get in your freshest gear and mentally prepare after a long ass 40+ week and go out and chill. Dont get me wrong nothgn wrong with going out but older you get.More you wanna stay home.

 

[M617]

i used to be heavy on coke too and that was the key to my weekends i looked forward to friday's so much just to bang out with the boys(nh). ever since i quit it i had to readjust to just drinking and its a whole other ball game and night out when your so used to relying on drugs....its better though

 

[Roger Sterling]

Bu-bu-but I'm about to be 21

Well, that's a little unusual.

However, you can simply take it as your maturing ahead of your peer group.

It happens.

 

[M617]

Bu-bu-but I'm about to be 21

20-24 was my best and hardest partying. thats when i had my most fun. i think you should suck it up and make the most of it because when you hit around 26 you will definitely feel like not going out and since you already feel this way 5 years earlier you probably wont be going out at all

 

[Roger Sterling]

^ Stop trying to give advice, tranny-fukker.

 

[Alec Baldwin]

nah you ain't alone my nikka. i'm 21 and I get like sometimes too, breh. Too much of the same thing gets old. Take some time for yourself and just chill on the weekends, after a lil while you'll be bored of being @ home and be back out there in full force.

 

[Sinnerman]

i was like that for the last two years because of depression. I'm breaking out of it however