Have you ever dated someone that was bothered by you being smarter than them?

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Shouldn't this always be the case when you're a :

6 certs
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kind of breh … :youngsabo:


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I dont give women the aurora for them to think they are smarter than me
I feel you but do you know for a fact that they don't feel that way deep down or when you're not around. Being smarter is more than "I can lie to him and get away with it "
 

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You're blessed to never have come across a fake smart bytch:francis:


Thats a different story all together. And probably what @BrothaZay should have titled his thread. to be


A fake smart bytch will be mad that someone is smarter than her

An actual smart woman, would appreciate it and welcome the opportunity to learn and grow.



It may be anal but I hate this idiotic anti-intellectual thinking that makes actual intelligent people look like a$$holes
 

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Thats a different story all together. And probably what @BrothaZay should have titled his thread. to be


A fake smart bytch will be mad that someone is smarter than her

An actual smart woman, would appreciate it and welcome the opportunity to learn and grow.



It may be anal but I hate this idiotic anti-intellectual thinking that makes actual intelligent people look like a$$holes
Define smart? I think someone can be smart and still be envious of someone more intelligent.
 

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I feel you but do you know for a fact that they don't feel that way deep down or when you're not around. Being smarter is more than "I can lie to him and get away with it "


I know what you mean, but smart people aren't arrogant and they certainly wont prance infront of their partner on some bullshyt.

You are probably smarter than her tbh
 

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When you are a smart breh it's too easy. I only date women who are smarter and more accomplished than me, there aren't enough credientialed/smart brehs :francis: (we need to fix this btw)
I am only too happy to be the beneficiary of women dating down. :blessed:
 

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Define smart? I think someone can be smart and still be envious of someone more intelligent.


Thats a good point, "intelligence" is a broad spectrum.

I just general intelligence such as

1. having intuitive thinking skills.
2. you can reason you thoughts well
3. your logic is fact based and not how you feel

Small list but, I feel like to be "intelligent" you should be able to think some consciously about every point I just made
 

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How long were they stripping for?

One was 19, 3 months. Moved from Florida to NY. H.s. valedictorian and was confused about which direction to go to with college. Was very beautiful and a girl she became friends were helped her get into stripping. This one finished college and moved to texas.

Other was 24 when i met her, she started opening up about being a writer but she loved thugs and guys who bust guns. Lol. She stripped for a few years...this one had 0 self esteem...but she had crazy anger issues and wanted to be accepted...she wasnt gonna get out of stripping

These bytches were fine. Point is, guys bad bytches will fukk you but they end up being headaches if they are lost in life.

I miss my intelligent ex. If i could do it over, id put a ring on her. 3 years she waited for me to get my shyt right...i took her love for granted. Oh well
 

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A lot of women think they're smarter than their men

That's why they hate losing arguments and hold it against u for mad long

If you win too many, they'll call u emotionally manipulative, psychologically controlling, mentally abusive...etc

So Just let them have it.....but if they feel like u let em win all the time without a fight then they think you don't care aka pushover

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Thats a good point, "intelligence" is a broad spectrum.

I just general intelligence such as

1. having intuitive thinking skills.
2. you can reason you thoughts well
3. your logic is fact based and not how you feel

Small list but, I feel like to be "intelligent" you should be able to think some consciously about every point I just made
I agree. This is actually the best way to summarize intelligence I've seen. So yes in my opinion someone who is let's say "educated" might feel insecure around someone they know is more naturally intelligent, without trying to be
 

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One was 19, 3 months. Moved from Florida to NY. H.s. valedictorian and was confused about which direction to go to with college. Was very beautiful and a girl she became friends were helped her get into stripping. This one finished college and moved to texas.

Other was 24 when i met her, she started opening up about being a writer but she loved thugs and guys who bust guns. Lol. She stripped for a few years...this one had 0 self esteem...but she had crazy anger issues and wanted to be accepted...she wasnt gonna get out of stripping

These bytches were fine. Point is, guys bad bytches will fukk you but they end up being headaches if they are lost in life.

I miss my intelligent ex. If i could do it over, id put a ring on her. 3 years she waited for me to get my shyt right...i took her love for granted. Oh well

:hubie:

Being college educated means nothing, all it means is that you can memorize from a book.


Other was 24 when i met her, she started opening up about being a writer but she loved thugs and guys who bust guns. Lol. She stripped for a few years...this one had 0 self esteem...but she had crazy anger issues and wanted to be accepted...she wasnt gonna get out of stripping

Stop overrating these women bro

What about this woman is smart if she is emotional unstable enough to gravitate to homicidal maniacs

Just because someone knows how to study doesn't mean they have two brain cells to rub together
 

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I agree. This is actually the best way to summarize intelligence I've seen. So yes in my opinion someone who is let's say "educated" might feel insecure around someone they know is more naturally intelligent, without trying to be

Exactly, Education != Intelligence
 
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