Girl changes her name from Keisha to Kylie...

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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/11/05/keisha-austin_n_4220259.html

What's in a name? For some people, that question is more complicated than it is for others.
Everyone feels an emotional tie to how a name can signify identity, but some names speak to the direct impact of the stereotypes promoted in society. For African-Americans, the conversation around the impact of having a "black" name is a highly charged one.
For 19-year-old Keisha Austin, of Kansas City, MO., the stereotypes associated with her name and the racist jokes from her peers pushed her to ultimately change her name given at birth.
Keisha's mother, Cristy Austin, was adamant about the name even before the teen was born. As a white woman raising a biracial daughter by herself in a neighborhood that wasn't very diverse, she said she gave her daughter the name to give her confidence and a connection to her culture. She thought the name represented a "strong, feminine, beautiful black woman."
“I saw it as a source of pride,” she said. “I wanted her to have that.”
But classmates constantly taunted her daughter who recalled experiences where her name was associated with video vixens. Kids would joke around asking if she had “La” or a “Sha" in her name. Even a teacher once joked about her name asking if there was a dollar sign in it.
“It’s like they assumed that I must be a certain kind of girl,” she says. “Like, my name is Keisha so they think they know something about me, and it always felt negative.”
A research paper titled "The Causes and Consequences of Distinctively Black Names" noted that the rise of more culturally specific names within the African-American community emerged in the 1970's with the rise of the black power movement.
"African Americans wanted to distinguish themselves from whites, and naming was an easy means to the end," writes the Daily Beast's Jamelle Bouie.
But does it impact the course of your life to have a name that's "black"? A study from the Cambridge-based National Bureau of Economic Research on the effect of black names looked at 16 million births in California between 1960 and 2000. The research found no significant effect on how someone's life turns out.
However, another study cited in a report by CBS news found having a "black-sounding" name lessened the chances of the candidate getting a callback when searching for a job. Applicants with "black names" were 50 percent less likely to get a call back compared to Anglo-Saxon names, despite similar resumes. Several other studies have found similar outcomes.
As for Austin, she no longer has to defend a name she said she never felt connected to. Last week, the teen officially changed her name to Kylie Austin, as an early Christmas gift from her mother.
“It’s not something I take lightly. I put a lot of thought into it. I don’t believe you should just change your name or your face or anything like that on a whim," she told the paper. "I didn’t want to change my name because I didn’t like it. I wanted to change my name because it didn’t feel comfortable. I don’t connect to it. I didn’t feel like myself, but I never want any girls named Keisha, or any name like that, to feel hurt or sad by it.”







I'm torn on this one, but only because the girl is mixed. I guess if you're mixed you will naturally feel connected more to 1 race over the other, but I just can't shake the feeling that this is all about wanting nothing to do with being even half black.
 

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SMH...Keisha isn't black culture it's apart of our culture that is a response to mainstream culture rejecting us.

I get the mother's idea, but, I can support her daughter's decision.

"Even a teacher once joked about her name asking if there was a dollar sign in it."
SMH
 

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Here's what you don't get. Being ashamed of names like "Keisha" just means you'll hop onto a next wave of names that are deemed "acceptable", and soon enough it'll be another "black" name. See "Tyrone".
 
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/11/05/keisha-austin_n_4220259.html

What's in a name? For some people, that question is more complicated than it is for others.
Everyone feels an emotional tie to how a name can signify identity, but some names speak to the direct impact of the stereotypes promoted in society. For African-Americans, the conversation around the impact of having a "black" name is a highly charged one.
For 19-year-old Keisha Austin, of Kansas City, MO., the stereotypes associated with her name and the racist jokes from her peers pushed her to ultimately change her name given at birth.
Keisha's mother, Cristy Austin, was adamant about the name even before the teen was born. As a white woman raising a biracial daughter by herself in a neighborhood that wasn't very diverse, she said she gave her daughter the name to give her confidence and a connection to her culture. She thought the name represented a "strong, feminine, beautiful black woman."
“I saw it as a source of pride,” she said. “I wanted her to have that.”
But classmates constantly taunted her daughter who recalled experiences where her name was associated with video vixens. Kids would joke around asking if she had “La” or a “Sha" in her name. Even a teacher once joked about her name asking if there was a dollar sign in it.
“It’s like they assumed that I must be a certain kind of girl,” she says. “Like, my name is Keisha so they think they know something about me, and it always felt negative.”
A research paper titled "The Causes and Consequences of Distinctively Black Names" noted that the rise of more culturally specific names within the African-American community emerged in the 1970's with the rise of the black power movement.
"African Americans wanted to distinguish themselves from whites, and naming was an easy means to the end," writes the Daily Beast's Jamelle Bouie.
But does it impact the course of your life to have a name that's "black"? A study from the Cambridge-based National Bureau of Economic Research on the effect of black names looked at 16 million births in California between 1960 and 2000. The research found no significant effect on how someone's life turns out.
However, another study cited in a report by CBS news found having a "black-sounding" name lessened the chances of the candidate getting a callback when searching for a job. Applicants with "black names" were 50 percent less likely to get a call back compared to Anglo-Saxon names, despite similar resumes. Several other studies have found similar outcomes.
As for Austin, she no longer has to defend a name she said she never felt connected to. Last week, the teen officially changed her name to Kylie Austin, as an early Christmas gift from her mother.
“It’s not something I take lightly. I put a lot of thought into it. I don’t believe you should just change your name or your face or anything like that on a whim," she told the paper. "I didn’t want to change my name because I didn’t like it. I wanted to change my name because it didn’t feel comfortable. I don’t connect to it. I didn’t feel like myself, but I never want any girls named Keisha, or any name like that, to feel hurt or sad by it.”







I'm torn on this one, but only because the girl is mixed. I guess if you're mixed you will naturally feel connected more to 1 race over the other, but I just can't shake the feeling that this is all about wanting nothing to do with being even half black.


Why should her name be her only connection to her "culture" (by that I assume she means her black side). She needs 2 get that from her black parent/relatives.
 

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Another white black girl. :smh: @ her picture. That Cac has nothing to do with black culture.

But yeah, I never understand why black families give us such stupid names in the first place, especially to our daughters. Latarsha, laquesha, Raqueena, Shaquanna, etc. Those names are ugly as fukk, yet we keep giving our sons and daughters these stupid names. Let's face it, these names only work against us when we're trying to get our foot in the door.
 

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mixed chick changing her name at 19, sounds like a sellout...

poor white mama trying to connect her to her culture...

sadly, i know of another white mama who says she doesnt want her kids to have blacks names...smh

the mixed chick is sellout...

good to see that folks could be whatever they want besides their names...and frankly blacks should not be penalized by their names, talk about white bias
 

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mixed chick changing her name at 19, sounds like a sellout...

poor white mama trying to connect her to her culture...

sadly, i know of another white mama who says she doesnt want her kids to have blacks names...smh

the mixed chick is sellout...

good to see that folks could be whatever they want besides their names...and frankly blacks should not be penalized by their names, talk about white bias

How is she a sellout? She's half white breh.
 

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Another white black girl. :smh: @ her picture. That Cac has nothing to do with black culture.

But yeah, I never understand why black families give us such stupid names in the first place, especially to our daughters. Latarsha, laquesha, Raqueena, Shaquanna, etc. .
In the 60s they were rejecting european culture and trying to start an exclusive black american culture (since black americans dont have one). So instead of carrying the white mans name, they figured they'd create new names. I think it was a good attempt, unfortunately white people rejected it, and managed to influence us into straying away from them, and that these names were ugly.

in smile it went a little like this.

blacks: what I look like having a name like Brad and Thomas. These cac ass names didn't come from africa. :wtb:

white people: :ld: what you gonna do about that.

blacks: :wtb: create our own names, hmmmm Imma go with Lakesha :blessed:

whites: :umadjay: check out Lakesha yall. Laquanda stfu and clean the halls.

blacks: :sadcam:
 

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I understand what the mom was trying to do. Maybe she should have been teaching her that those people can't make her and when she gets older she can move away or break the stereotype of the name. No matter what her name is, those people will still be racist, and see her as black.

I wouldn't have changed my name. People have been messing up and making fun of my real name most of my life. I use to think of changing it, but I love it. A bullies never made me do anything that changed who I was.
 
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