Damn brehs, I disobeyed one of the cardinal rules when dating someone. When it's over, don't take them back it's done
So me and my girl ended things a couple months ago. She felt like I getting distant and I was , got tired of her nagging and all around bytchness as of late. So cliffnotes, she asked, why are we even together, and I said cool let's go ahead and end things. At first she's like yeah I agree, but she woke up the next morning hitting me up on my line like, "I think I made a mistake wanting to end things last night."
At this point I'm good and ready to move on like nahhh, you said what you meant better to go our separate ways .
But she incessantly blows up my line for the next week apologizing and how much she will change, how much she wants things to work. There is where I fukked up , obviously I still had love for ol girl, but I know this is the oldest trick in the book by females, usually until they can find a potential replacement, but I still fell for the bait and we got back together.
Fast forward to this morning and ol girl wants to end things, "wants to find herself" and "we tried but it isn't working". Now I admit I was distant when we first got back together, because I foresaw this heel turn, but these past couple weeks I actually tried to make a conscious effort to be a better boyfriend and this is what happens. The thing that killed me is the most petty examples she came up with why it wasn't working. Just stuff that obviously isn't or ever should be a big deal, but she needed some basis to stand on why she ended things.
Not heartbroken because I kinda checked out a minute ago, but more frustrated because this could have been prevented . Ain't tripping too much it's spring training, time to get the roster up for summer 16
So me and my girl ended things a couple months ago. She felt like I getting distant and I was , got tired of her nagging and all around bytchness as of late. So cliffnotes, she asked, why are we even together, and I said cool let's go ahead and end things. At first she's like yeah I agree, but she woke up the next morning hitting me up on my line like, "I think I made a mistake wanting to end things last night."
At this point I'm good and ready to move on like nahhh, you said what you meant better to go our separate ways .
But she incessantly blows up my line for the next week apologizing and how much she will change, how much she wants things to work. There is where I fukked up , obviously I still had love for ol girl, but I know this is the oldest trick in the book by females, usually until they can find a potential replacement, but I still fell for the bait and we got back together.
Fast forward to this morning and ol girl wants to end things, "wants to find herself" and "we tried but it isn't working". Now I admit I was distant when we first got back together, because I foresaw this heel turn, but these past couple weeks I actually tried to make a conscious effort to be a better boyfriend and this is what happens. The thing that killed me is the most petty examples she came up with why it wasn't working. Just stuff that obviously isn't or ever should be a big deal, but she needed some basis to stand on why she ended things.
Not heartbroken because I kinda checked out a minute ago, but more frustrated because this could have been prevented . Ain't tripping too much it's spring training, time to get the roster up for summer 16