A lot of women are self absorbed and selfish, it's not really a surprise to me anymore I just move accordingly.
Like for example.. me in this scenario is building the house for my family right... and i see my wife not even willing to put a couple of boxes up and help me clear up... then everything is going in my name, I did the work so I own everything. Nothing is being put in both our names.
Now if the marriage goes left, everything belongs to me (apart from court interference).
Move according to people's character. Dont air out what your doing or expose yourself... just watch them and move accordingly.
House already in dudes name, he built it lol
Reminds me when my dad and aunt were rebuilding my grandmothers/grandfather’s house after the flood.
Whenever they weren’t in town and I was going to be there, they would legit ask me to be there for certain things if I was in the area and it was literally not even a big deal or anything. Whether it was to clean, dust off the walls, watch the house, throw shyt away, sweep up the yard, be there when furniture is delivered, etc.
It aint even my crib but it’s family, so you just do it even if you don’t feel like doing it. Everyone is putting in work, so you do too. Everyone has jobs, but it’s a family project.
