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30for30bird

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So I'm a very confident fella. I can go from talking up a storm about this that and the third to whispering sweet nothings in a lady's ear on the dance floor but one thing I have a problem with is talking to a female in the gym. Idk what makes it so difficult to approach a female in the gym but I feel that would make me the lowest dog in the kennel. Ladies if you are staring at a man hard in the gym, are you begging for his attention and wishing he would come and tell you some shiiii or is it something completely different?
 

Malcolmxxx_23

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Stop making it a big deal
Just have small chats with everyone
Girls and guys :manny:

It's.not like a nightclub where you probably won't see them so it's easier to just go and approach..
 

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I'd say go for it if the chick is giving signals. I, personally, hate when folks would try to chat me up at the gym because I'm there to get my work out in and get the fukk out.
 
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I purposely avoid men in the gym by not paying attention to them, I go to work out not socialise. I also work out in the female section of the gym.

This. It's hella awkward having someone approach you while you are trying to mind your business and work out. The headphone thing doesn't work either. I need to go to a gym with a female section.
 

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This. It's hella awkward having someone approach you while you are trying to mind your business and work out. The headphone thing doesn't work either. I need to go to a gym with a female section.

I especially like my female section because it has all the equipment I like and use with the exception of one and it's never really crowded.
 

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I avoid looking at people at the gym. That doesn't stop people from talking to me sometimes and I'm always nice about it even though I hate it lol. I'm lworking out, sweating, etc and you are trying to talk :why:

But if they are staring then you can just start by speaking. Just make sure they are actually staring at you and not through you sometimes people are just focusing on a spot and someone happens to step in view by they aren't staring at the person.
 

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I avoid looking at people at the gym. That doesn't stop people from talking to me sometimes and I'm always nice about it even though I hate it lol. I'm lworking out, sweating, etc and you are trying to talk :why:

But if they are staring then you can just start by speaking. Just make sure they are actually staring at you and not through you sometimes people are just focusing on a spot and someone happens to step in view by they aren't staring at the person.
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