Feeling annoyed or irked by your sig other....temporary feeling or nah?

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We been 2gether so much over the past month or 2. Like 3 or 4 days a week.

I feel weird. Not like I did before. I dont feel head over heels anymore.

I think I need some me time :ehh:

talk to me, Coli @Theraflu
 

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Before I get into it a few questions.

1. How long do you usually spend together ?

2. What caused the increase in the amount of time you spend together ?

3. When are y'all planning on moving in together ?

ill summon @Elle Driver @Ziggiy @His_Excellence_Reincar in here to give advice too....
 

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Before I get into it a few questions.

1. How long do you usually spend together ?

2. What caused the increase in the amount of time you spend together ?

3. When are y'all planning on moving in together ?

ill summon @Elle Driver @Ziggiy @His_Excellence_Reincar in here to give advice too....

:skip: I give the worst advice breh. Plus he's simpy and I wanna scratch my eyeballs out everytime he talks about simp shyt and love.
 

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Before I get into it a few questions.

1. How long do you usually spend together ?

2. What caused the increase in the amount of time you spend together ?

3. When are y'all planning on moving in together ?

ill summon @Elle Driver @Ziggiy @His_Excellence_Reincar in here to give advice too....


Usually friday to monday.

Not during week.

we are together from friday to wednesday this weekend bc we both took off for her bday

We are shopping now lol

we wanna move in within the next 3 months
 

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Ahhhh "me" time....the ever elusive. It's needed, but the trick is to find a way to get it regularly because one day of time doing you and not having some down time to look forward to can have you resenting each other. I use the gym, football and boxing most. At this point Sunday afternoons, Sat nights and weekday mornings can all be a toss up if we aren't getting money or with kids. I just hit her with the ":yeshrug: the breh's getting the ppv:ufdup: ain't say nothing bout, kicking it so i'mma dip". Mind you, my girl cool and we are best friend's, but shyt anyone get's annoying if you ain't in the mood. In other words get a hobby, breh..missing each other is a neccesity.
 
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We been 2gether so much over the past month or 2. Like 3 or 4 days a week.

I feel weird. Not like I did before. I dont feel head over heels anymore.

I think I need some me time :ehh:

talk to me, Coli @Theraflu


Happens all the time in a relationship. There is nothing wrong with needing a little "you" time, me as a married man and spending every single day in one manner or another with my wife I find joy in the little things. Like watching my favorite shows, hanging out with my homies, reading, etc. about once a week just having some alone time.
 

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Happens all the time in a relationship. There is nothing wrong with needing a little "you" time, me as a married man and spending every single day in one manner or another with my wife I find joy in the little things. Like watching my favorite shows, hanging out with my homies, reading, etc. about once a week just having some alone time.

Ahhhh "me" time....the ever elusive. It's needed, but the trick is to find a way to get it regularly because one day of time doing you and not having some down time to look forward to can have you resenting each other. I use the gym, football and boxing most. At this point Sunday afternoons, Sat nights and weekday mornings can all be a toss up if we aren't getting money or with kids. I just hit her with the ":yeshrug: the breh's getting the ppv:ufdup: ain't say nothing bout, kicking it so i'mma dip". Mind you, my girl cool and we are best friend's, but shyt anyone get's annoying if you ain't in the mood. In other words get a hobby, breh..missing each other is a neccesity.

props. I need a weekend with my boys or something tbh.

my bday next weekend so she may wanna be with me. Idk.

Imma just relax. Itll get better.

who knows. She may have felt this way once before. She may feel this way next week.

I think I am just learning that relationships are work. Every day isnt valentine's day lol
 
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