Never been directly approached, but back in my IG prime, I've had many hit my DM first in an attempt to spark a conversation. One of them was clearly feeling herself way too much based on her page. I kept it real short with her and was never in a hurry to reply. She got the message. As a married man, I kept it short casual with everybody, but I was extra cold with this person. Truthfully though, most of the conceited ones probably ain't approaching like that. I let it be known that I was married so my experience may be different though. I can say though, a lot of women care. If I was single in this era, man....