Does Love NEED To Be Unconditional? Does The Answer Differ In Gender?
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even your mother's love comes under the conditions that she was instilled with those values
many mothers don't have that & treat their kids like shyte
unconditional love is not something humans are capable of
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many mothers don't have that & treat their kids like shyte
unconditional love is not something humans are capable of
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Unconditional, what does that mean here. Unconditional like the Japanese surrender had to be at the end of the war? Where you ask for nothing and submit entirely?
I don't see how that can be a good thing to be honest. If you do something wrong, you need to be called out on it, and nobody has more right to call you out than your immediate family and your partner.
It can't be a good thing to have a yes man and a doormat so close to you in your life, occupying such an important role in your life. They need to be able to set you right when you go wrong. Yes men and door mats is what your friends might be, but you can't have that in your inner circle.
We say parenting is unconditional love, but it isnt. How many times did your parents punish you when you were a kid because you did something wrong? That's what being a good parent is about, encourage good things in children and discourage bad things. It's not unconditional. An unconditional parent would be a horrible one, and their child would grow up to be a selfish, psychopathic monster
I don't see how that can be a good thing to be honest. If you do something wrong, you need to be called out on it, and nobody has more right to call you out than your immediate family and your partner.
It can't be a good thing to have a yes man and a doormat so close to you in your life, occupying such an important role in your life. They need to be able to set you right when you go wrong. Yes men and door mats is what your friends might be, but you can't have that in your inner circle.
We say parenting is unconditional love, but it isnt. How many times did your parents punish you when you were a kid because you did something wrong? That's what being a good parent is about, encourage good things in children and discourage bad things. It's not unconditional. An unconditional parent would be a horrible one, and their child would grow up to be a selfish, psychopathic monster
Punishing a child doesnt erase love though. The love is still unconditional.
Prince.Skeletor
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I cant speak for others. Becuase i can love someone or have love for them but never speak to them again. I have a couple of those situations going on. Friends and family alike.
When it comes to intimate relationships btw man and woman, for me ive been lukcy where the woman ive Doned gf’s have this crazy obsession for me and my happiness. Not stalker but very dedicated to making me happy.
While i love/d those woman. There werent the end all and be all of my existence. I think its important for it to be that way. Men arent designed to be truly monogamous or at least devoid of the idea of lusting other woman.
When it comes to intimate relationships btw man and woman, for me ive been lukcy where the woman ive Doned gf’s have this crazy obsession for me and my happiness. Not stalker but very dedicated to making me happy.
While i love/d those woman. There werent the end all and be all of my existence. I think its important for it to be that way. Men arent designed to be truly monogamous or at least devoid of the idea of lusting other woman.