It was hard with the first 2 because we were close. They say birds of a feather flock together. We are all decent cats, good jobs, college educated. We all kicked it together when everyone else was falling into drugs and alcohol, jail, having babies etc. We kept our heads on straight.
Like I said there were noticeable differences. Like one got really political. The other one just flipped the script. Stopped liking shyt that that we usually like breaking bad, arrested development, curb your enthusiasm, hobbies like going to baseball games, riding out on the bike trail, dirt biking, anything really. There's enough of us that kick it that have different interests but this cat just fell off wasn't having fun anymore and never wanted to do anything. We'd try to find things to do to keep the clique together but it was time, life.