It's hard to find PEOPLE...male and female that don't cheat. No one wants to be tied down to one person and they always keep their options open. Even if they aren't having sex with someone else, they have a little side piece they are in an emotional relationship with..."Best friend" that is doing all the things their spouse isn't doing. Instead of communicating with their partner, they use these side boos to fill in the gaps which means they aren't 100% committed to the relationship in the first place. I don't think people take relationships very seriously anymore.