Do some parents set up kids for failure (Evade Responsibility)?

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Saw some bugged out shyt about "Free Range Parenting"... Basically, some anti-vax type women leave their kids out in random places like malls and public parks and the kids are on some Mowgli/Home Alone type latchkey kid orphan tip....

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They get the public benefit of the doubt (see millennial wypipo privilege handbook pg. 22)

On the flip.

I see a lot of non-white people let their kids go full adult mode/unsupervised and walk around the neighborhood with random people, doing random shyt and seem more demanding of the child to make decisons that don't lead to prison or death...

School to Prison Pipeline... added
I wonder if people do this to evade parenthood or just get their kids taken away so they could be child free.
Sounds fukked up ...any examples?

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When Black and Latinos don't plan to have kids and got no money and gotta work two jobs and shyt...

Leaving their kids alone and etc isn't a parenting tactic...they just got no choice...

And I am sure they regret they don't got the resources to actually raise a child...
 
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When Black and Latinos don't plan to have kids and got no money and gotta work two jobs and shyt...

Leaving their kids alone and etc isn't a parenting tactic...they just got no choice...

And I am sure they regret they don't got the resources to actually raise a child...

When do they get the chance though?

I know some people that never had shyt, that didn't end up part of the system.

Parents made sure breh.
 

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When do they get the chance though?

I know some people that never had shyt, that didn't end up part of the system.

Parents made sure breh.

Well I think those kids that don't end up dead or in jail...it ain't because of their parents...

Some people are lucky enough or mentally strong enough to lead themselves out of fukked up situations

And some people aren't

My dad's momma and daddy ain't shyt...he the only one of his siblings that ever left his city ..and stayed out and didn't get into not trouble or had babies everywhere

He just special like that

His sister had a kid at 16

His brother is a narcissist and only make 12 an hour so he gotta live with women...

And all of them lived in abject poverty...not talking about a project...I mean sticks and stones poverty...
 
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Well I think those kids that don't end up dead or in jail...it ain't because of their parents...

Some people are lucky enough or mentally strong enough to lead themselves out of fukked up situations

And some people aren't

My dad's momma and daddy ain't shyt...he the only one of his siblings that ever left his city ..and stayed out and didn't get into not trouble or had babies everywhere

He just special like that

His sister had a kid at 16

His brother is a narcissist and only make 12 an hour so he gotta live with women...

And all of them lived in abject poverty...not talking about a project...I mean sticks and stones poverty...

Luck is one thing, like you said.

Survival instinct is another.

The people you talked about know what they were up against, so they worked hard to fight that shyt.

These new kids and parents out here are snuffin nikkas over Xboxes and petty arguments.

Different times. I hope somebody wakes the fukk up.
 
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Nah not purposely.

Parenting is the toughest job in the world and non stop.

Diff circumstances happen that impacts ur life.

Ur parents usually try to put u in the best position to succeed.

Now it doesnt always work out that way but im sure they mean well in approach.

Life has ups and downs.
 

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Luck is one thing, like you said.

Survival instinct is another.

The people you talked about know what they were up against, so they worked hard to fight that shyt.

These new kids and parents out here are snuffin nikkas over Xboxes and petty arguments.

Different times. I hope somebody wakes the fukk up.

these new kids are finished.... because they mama and daddies are product of the crackhead era and freak nic shyt...

these 30 to 45 year old parents are the main ones to blame for what's wrong with these kids today
 
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Nah not purposely.

Parenting is the toughest job in the world and non stop.

Diff circumstances happen that impacts ur life.

Ur parents usually try to put u in the best position to succeed.

Now it doesnt always work out that way but im sure they mean well in approach.

Life has ups and downs.


I see your point. Every parent should want their kids to succeed...some just don't have the tools. There is a difference between bad parenting and bad parents.
 
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