do i tell someone he's being creepy or will that actually make it worse?

[no.]

so, uh, there's this guy who i was talking to

was, past tense

we eventually had a disagreement

i gave him the cold shoulder but he came up to me and tried to talk like everything was good

i was like i told you i was mad at you, you haven't apologized or anything

he was like ''i haven't a reason to apologize''

and i just said well then don't wonder what's up when i don't talk to you...

so far so good, right? threw him in the bushes, it's over....... right?

dude was mad creepy today

like... today i was sitting at a table and he was sitting directly facing me and watching me from a distance... this was at uni btw

i was so uncomfortable i got up and left and i saw he left when i got up

so he really wasn't there for any other innocent reason that wasn't watching me

how do i deal with this? i don't want to talk to him again... is it worth it to talk to him again just to say ''don't sit and stare at me?''

 

[thirdeye]

If he does it again, you should go and tell him like hey, whatever youre doing is making me uncomfortable. id appreciate it if you chill. he probs think youre playing hard to get.

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

That's some crazy stuff. That's why we need beneficial knowledge, so that we can do well in these tests/ life.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

so, uh, there's this guy who i was talking to

was, past tense

we eventually had a disagreement

i gave him the cold shoulder but he came up to me and tried to talk like everything was good

i was like i told you i was mad at you, you haven't apologized or anything

he was like ''i haven't a reason to apologize''

and i just said well then don't wonder what's up when i don't talk to you...

so far so good, right? threw him in the bushes, it's over....... right?

dude was mad creepy today

like... today i was sitting at a table and he was sitting directly facing me and watching me from a distance... this was at uni btw

i was so uncomfortable i got up and left and i saw he left when i got up

so he really wasn't there for any other innocent reason that wasn't watching me

how do i deal with this? i don't want to talk to him again... is it worth it to talk to him again just to say ''don't sit and stare at me?''

Well if you want answers here from a rational perspective you're in the wrong place. Most of these posters ARE that guy

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

Well if you want answers here from a rational perspective you're in the wrong place. Most of these posters ARE that guy

Probably true. I just try to have patience with people like that, and I don't try to stoop to their level. When you violate others, you're just violating yourself. This life is too beautiful.

 

[no.]

Well if you want answers here from a rational perspective you're in the wrong place. Most of these posters ARE that guy

i'm good now though

i have a different class schedule now (no, i didn't change it because of him, other factors) so i'm not bumping into him anymore at all