Imo from my observations it's best to have some kind of niche that separate yourself from the average guy.
Getting women esp black women in 2017 can be hard unless you're some type of mythological super nikka. So I think it's best most dudes find their own lane.
Clothes, cars, appearance isn't going to work. I think alot of men dating woes stem from not having a niche. Women want like minded men that have their share their interest.
If a chick is into fashion, you need to be into fashion. If a chick like cook You need to be into cooking. You need your own lane.
How else do u stand put? You got on fitted jeans and the other 123 guys got on fitted jeans. You need your own niche to standout. Your own fashion sense. Your own thoughts.
Woman have evolved but men haven't. They're past being impressed by your material shyt they want somebody to simulate them mentally.
I think men need to let the old way go and adjust Because if you don't you'll get left behind. We live in a era where alot women are totally insane but u have to make the proper adjustments and maybe compromise a little. Stoop to conquer as my dad told me.
Women just want to have fun. So of you're into that introspective philosophical shyt keep it to yourself and indulge her bullshyt. It's better than being lonely. Just Smile and nod and let her talk.
It's all about a niche gentlemen. Find your own unique lane. Get a hobby.
Because just doing things the old way won't work. If u notice, you probably don't even see single woman out anymore. It probably seem like they exist. Like 'where are all the woman?" Woman in 2017 are like big foot. U see them on social media but outside never. Woman need to be lied to to function.
Why? They like to go to events centered their interest. You need to have those same types of interest whether u like it on not
Dming , POF, tinder ain't going to work. Plus u have to compete thousands of other men. Bit if you have a hobby you can mess with women within that area.
Getting women esp black women in 2017 can be hard unless you're some type of mythological super nikka. So I think it's best most dudes find their own lane.
Clothes, cars, appearance isn't going to work. I think alot of men dating woes stem from not having a niche. Women want like minded men that have their share their interest.
If a chick is into fashion, you need to be into fashion. If a chick like cook You need to be into cooking. You need your own lane.
How else do u stand put? You got on fitted jeans and the other 123 guys got on fitted jeans. You need your own niche to standout. Your own fashion sense. Your own thoughts.
Woman have evolved but men haven't. They're past being impressed by your material shyt they want somebody to simulate them mentally.
I think men need to let the old way go and adjust Because if you don't you'll get left behind. We live in a era where alot women are totally insane but u have to make the proper adjustments and maybe compromise a little. Stoop to conquer as my dad told me.
Women just want to have fun. So of you're into that introspective philosophical shyt keep it to yourself and indulge her bullshyt. It's better than being lonely. Just Smile and nod and let her talk.
It's all about a niche gentlemen. Find your own unique lane. Get a hobby.
Because just doing things the old way won't work. If u notice, you probably don't even see single woman out anymore. It probably seem like they exist. Like 'where are all the woman?" Woman in 2017 are like big foot. U see them on social media but outside never. Woman need to be lied to to function.
Why? They like to go to events centered their interest. You need to have those same types of interest whether u like it on not
Dming , POF, tinder ain't going to work. Plus u have to compete thousands of other men. Bit if you have a hobby you can mess with women within that area.