Dating 2017 in is very complex. Men need to find a niche through having a hobby

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Imo from my observations it's best to have some kind of niche that separate yourself from the average guy.

Getting women esp black women in 2017 can be hard unless you're some type of mythological super nikka. So I think it's best most dudes find their own lane.

Clothes, cars, appearance isn't going to work. I think alot of men dating woes stem from not having a niche. Women want like minded men that have their share their interest.

If a chick is into fashion, you need to be into fashion. If a chick like cook You need to be into cooking. You need your own lane.

How else do u stand put? You got on fitted jeans and the other 123 guys got on fitted jeans. You need your own niche to standout. Your own fashion sense. Your own thoughts.

Woman have evolved but men haven't. They're past being impressed by your material shyt they want somebody to simulate them mentally.

I think men need to let the old way go and adjust Because if you don't you'll get left behind. We live in a era where alot women are totally insane but u have to make the proper adjustments and maybe compromise a little. Stoop to conquer as my dad told me.

Women just want to have fun. So of you're into that introspective philosophical shyt keep it to yourself and indulge her bullshyt. It's better than being lonely. Just Smile and nod and let her talk.

It's all about a niche gentlemen. Find your own unique lane. Get a hobby.

Because just doing things the old way won't work. If u notice, you probably don't even see single woman out anymore. It probably seem like they exist. Like 'where are all the woman?" Woman in 2017 are like big foot. U see them on social media but outside never. Woman need to be lied to to function.

Why? They like to go to events centered their interest. You need to have those same types of interest whether u like it on not

Dming , POF, tinder ain't going to work. Plus u have to compete thousands of other men. Bit if you have a hobby you can mess with women within that area.
 

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And dating is not that complex and if you feel it is you simply can choose not to participate
 

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I think it's harder for guys in their 20s, bcuz their money aint right and theyre still trying to find themselves. One day they look like Odell Beckham Jr, next week they want to be Chief Keif. :russ:
Women know when you're indecisive and it's unattractive. But when you know who you are and roll with it unapologetic, people dig it.


You better off being yourself and chasing someone similar to yourself. If you're lame and wear Southpole, stop shooting for IG models and wannabe models.
 

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:damn:



Click on this tweet:



:whew:

This dude is just gunning this females :bustback:


use this as a case study example.

The reason why this guy is getting so much play isnt really looks, I mean thats apart of it but lets study this.

He identified many key things that attract woman.

Hes employed, career orientated, hes good at his craft and on top of that hes handsome.

He found a niche. women are attracted to the first 3 things and the last sets it off.

Just thinking you're going to get jordans and fitted clothes and approach isnt going to work. Those type of guys have been written off as "Dusty nikkas"
 
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nikka... (exhales) :snoop:

My "niche" and my hobbies are for my own fukking life enjoyment, sanity, and personal growth. I don't do this shyt to attract females, I do what I want to do cause I can't see myself living life any other way.

I'm literally trying to take over the planet nikka

What happens when you finally get the girl, then what? The journey is over?

Get real fam
 

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I don't see why you never just do a complimentary commission for women. I do that all the time with my edits and get a nice lil bit of play even tho I do the bare minimum with it
 

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use this as a case study example.

The reason why this guy is getting so much play isnt really looks, I mean thats apart of it but lets study this.

He identified many key things that attract woman.

Hes employed, career orientated, hes good at his craft and on top of that hes handsome.

He found a niche. women are attracted to the first 3 things and the last sets it off.

Just thinking you're going to get jordans and fitted clothes and approach isnt going to work. Those type of guys have been written off as "Dusty nikkas"

When I read the thread title I knew it was related to that guy. For real though you seem mad insecure my guy, all these advise seem to be like your over compensating.:yeshrug:
 

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we need a gofundme page for OP to get him a wholesome clean BBW from BP to relax him
alotta you dudes project your thoughts on to me. Im not a scumbag buy hookers guy. Im a clean living type of dude. LOL im not the avg coli deprived individual. YALL lane is backpage chicks
 

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use this as a case study example.

The reason why this guy is getting so much play isnt really looks, I mean thats apart of it but lets study this.

He identified many key things that attract woman.

Hes employed, career orientated, hes good at his craft and on top of that hes handsome.

He found a niche. women are attracted to the first 3 things and the last sets it off.

Just thinking you're going to get jordans and fitted clothes and approach isnt going to work. Those type of guys have been written off as "Dusty nikkas"
He could've been all 3 but if he was ugly bytches would not be in his dms stop deluding yourself breh that niche shyt sounds good in theory not in practice
 

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When I read the thread title I knew it was related to that guy. For real though you seem mad insecure my guy, all these advise seem to be like your over compensating.:yeshrug:
That's what I'm saying sounds like bro is looking for anything other than being unattractive as a reason why he not eating you can be the most successful well versed business man with Hella hobbies if you ugly you going get curved alot that's just how the world works
 

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When I read the thread title I knew it was related to that guy. For real though you seem mad insecure my guy, all these advise seem to be like your over compensating.:yeshrug:
its just a case study and if I am "insecure" who gives a fukk....the information is whats important

anyway its a beautiful day in buffalo im going to look. think of some new theories or something
 

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He could've been all 3 but if he was ugly bytches would not be in his dms stop deluding yourself breh that niche shyt sounds good in theory not in practice
WRONG....plenty of ugly dudes eat from their niche...matter of fact thats the BEST WAY for a ugly motherfukker to eat
 
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