Cumming vs having an orgasm

[Ohene]

my girl is a bit inexperienced so when we smash it can be a bit confusing.

I'll make her cum, gush or whatever, but in an attempt to figure out what works for her I ask if she had an orgasm and she'll give a nonsensical, confused answer like she doesn't know.

She has only had an orgasm from clitoral stimulation before so I'm guessing maybe it's a different feeling and that's why she doesn't think she is having orgasms from penetration cause she expects it to feel the same

But I don't know. I don't care for ego purposes but rather cause I want her to fully enjoy having sex. So I am

. On average... If a girl cums from penetration is it reasonable to assume that she had an orgAsM

And two

Do clitoral and vaginal orgasms feel different for you women

 

[CinnaSlim]

Yes, they are different. And every woman is different. Women are complicated for no reason it seems like lol.

For me, clitgasms are like fast food but vaginalgasms are like home cooked meals, with fresh ingredients that have to be wash and prepped, marinated and cooked all day.

Clitgasms almost dont count. They are the cherry on top of penetration.

For other women, I've heard the opposite. If she's like me, she probably isnt too concerned with getting hers or she doesnt want to make that the goal because she's more concerned with you enjoying yourself. Some people are givers. If you both are then that's amazing.

Maybe, have the convo not during or after sex. Ask her what she likes, what she doesnt like, how you can make it better. Even better if possible, observe and learn, rather then ask her to read you the manual.

 

[paperbag]

Orgasms when you actually .cum are usually the best ones and they definitely feel different than clitoral orgasms, but you still know that you had an orgasm. I'm confused how she could be confused. Now squirting orgasms are not very good, so if that's what you mean I could see it feeling "off" to her.

I think maybe she just getting really wet and not orgasming because a orgasm caused by penetration really causes a loss of control of your body, if think there would be no mistaking it. But every woman's body is different

 

[skeetsinternal]

Ask what her ex used to do to make her cum

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Update OP? You tearing the sheets up?

 

[Suleiman Bey]

Yo whats up with chicksputting ya limp dicck on the clit or just sitting on ya diick and grinding and cumming. The fucck is that about?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Clitoral vs penetration is like having a healthy snack vs a full meal. Both at the same time? That's like eating a food that came from mount Olympus that keeps you full for a week and makes sunshine follow you wherever you go.

 

[Rawtid]

Clitoral vs penetration is like having a healthy snack vs a full meal. Both at the same time? That's like eating a food that came from mount Olympus that keeps you full for a week and makes sunshine follow you wherever you go.

Lol great analogy!

I’ve never orgasm’d from penetration but I’m not trying to go through a bunch of dikks to find it either.

 

[BigMan]

Clitoral vs penetration is like having a healthy snack vs a full meal. Both at the same time? That's like eating a food that came from mount Olympus that keeps you full for a week and makes sunshine follow you wherever you go.

this is g spot stimulation right

 

[Jean Jacket]

Get your tongue game right. Pop her off a couple that way, and you get her mentally ready for penetration orgasm.

That's the long game. Don't go right to licking. Tease with your hands and partially enter a coupe times with the pole.

She'll be mentally focused on making you give her penetration after you make her cum from clit stimulation.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

It’s all the same for me. I get creamy dripping wet, vaginal muscles are contracting involuntarily or fluttering, hell I might start tryin to fight it...might cry a lil bit, body is EXTREMELY SENSITIVE afterwards. So much so that the slightest touch can push me over the edge again and again and again.

Then I pass out. Boneless, dreamless, sleep. But One isn’t enough for me. It has to be multiple or I’ll just be achy below and frustrated.
It doesn’t matter whether it’s from the clit or penetration. But I have to go over that edge.

I don’t know if I could stay with a dude if I had to masturbate after sex with him to get an orgasm. I don’t get the point in sex if u aren’t satisfied.