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talk about when you had your first child....what were your thoughts...feelings...?

what did you want b/g?...and what did you feel when you found out what you were having....
 

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- Fear...i still to this day stop and think about the fact that i'm someone's dad.

- boy

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talk about when you had your first child....what were your thoughts...feelings...?

what did you want b/g?...and what did you feel when you found out what you were having....
scary cuz i was 15 when i got pregnant with my 1st child, i was living with my granny and she real religious, she wanted me to first have an abortion then changed her mind to adoption and once i heard my baby's heartbeat for the first time that just wasnt an option anymore.once i had my baby tho, i was determined to not make the same dumb mistakes again. i was overjoyed cuz i had someone who if i loved him as best as i could at my age wouldnt grow up to hate me. my son is now about to be 20 and he's a good mannarable respectable responsible young man who doesnt hate me.
 

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Anxiety and excitement. I was worried about being a good dad, but at the same time I felt like I was ready. I was the only dude out of my group of friends who didn't have kids and I had just turned 26 and I was financially stable.

I wanted a boy and got one....and a girl. Fraternal twins had me and the ole lady strung out that first year. :whew:
 

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I felt and still feel anxiety...Just a constant state of worry. I didn't know what I wanted but I had a girl and I'm glad I did.
 
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