Can you love someone who doesnt love you bacc?

[BrothaZay]

Having this debate right now with some friends

All the males saying no

The bytches sayin yes

So whats yalls OPINION on this?

 

[lachreyatarbabypits]

NO

 

[SouthernBelle]

Romantically? No that is infatuation or obsession.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

If you do anything in life because of what you'll receive in return, is setting yourself up for disappointment.

 

[A Friend of The People]

Obviously.....you can be in love with someone before they know or realize it.....two people in a relationship can break up and one still loves the other....it doesnt have to go both ways

 

[BrothaZay]

Yes, my home girl sparked the debate because she said "Im tired of wasting time on someone who doesnt want me, I love him but he dont love me bacc"
me being the pseudo intellectual that i am called her dumb and said thats impossible and started an argument for no good reason other than to feel smart

 

[BrothaZay]

If you do anything in life because of what you'll receive in return, is setting yourself up for disappointment.

This is truly the best thing i ever read on here.

 

[BrothaZay]

Obviously.....you can be in love with someone before they know or realize it.....two people in a relationship can break up and one still loves the other....it doesnt have to go both ways

So you can love someone who ignores you and doenst even care that you exist

 

[A Friend of The People]

So you can love someone who ignores you and doenst even care that you exist

Thats not what you asked in the OP. Even though I'm sure its been done before, you asked can a person love someone who doesnt love them back.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

Yes, my home girl sparked the debate because she said "Im tired of wasting time on someone who doesnt want me, I love him but he dont love me bacc"
me being the pseudo intellectual that i am called her dumb and said thats impossible and started an argument for no good reason other than to feel smart

Therein lies the problem. You cannot dictate how an individual is suppose to "love" you

You have to understand the individual you're with and the various ways the show affection/gratitude; which isn't always verbal.

 

[HookersandIceCream]

Your not supposed to love anyone on the condition that they will love you back

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

Love is overrated these days. If i wont die for you i dont love you. I would die for my mama and my daughter. Thats it. I dont expect love from her, only for her to treat me as i wanna be treated. If she starts to love me ill reciprocate, but that takes time. But love is not real love these days; if she wont die for him it aint true love.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Yes....unrequited love.

But it never happened to me. I once liked a girl more than she liked me though. My pawg

She got a dude now

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Love is overrated these days. If i wont die for you i dont love you. I would die for my mama and my daughter. Thats it. I dont expect love from her, only for her to treat me as i wanna be treated. If she starts to love me ill reciprocate, but that takes time. But love is not real love these days; if she wont die for him it aint true love.

no it isn't. it's just a misused term, not overrated...

 

[Dr.seuss Swag]

Had a gurl who loved me to death...I liked her but I told her I couldnt love her back