I let a woman drag me to Jamal Bryant's Church on Valentine's Day years ago and during his sermon he said that anytime there's a problem in a relationship it's the man's fault..... because he's the man.
He got a standing ovation from the mostly female congregation.
That is why men don't go to church.
Women are putting the money in the collection plate so the message, activities, social organizations are all tailored to them. end result is a lot of anti-male/ masculine Dogma. It's not just black churches.
It's like a nightclub for older women, they dress up, sing, dance and talk shyt about each other.
There is a reason so many gay brehs feel comfortable there.