Brian McKnight is Trending for Calling his Children "Sins"

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Second comment was dumb. We literally have a term for bad fathers (deadbeat dads) and a childish term for people whose psychological development has been ruined by them ( daddy issues)

He's a whole coward and it is funny seeing him get ratio'd on his own comments section. One thing that I'm really happy to see from Gen Z and young millennials is the wide spread acceptance of prioritizing mental health and sexual hygiene. Teen pregnancies are lower with zoomers. They're less likely to use hard drugs, they're more likely to invest and they focus on being healthy before considering adding children into their lives.

"Everyone else is doing it and i don't want to miss out"
"I'll be too old"
"I'm at that age and my family expects it"

These are all insufficient reasons to bring a child into this world. If you don't know what you're getting into and what you're doing, and if you have no support from people who will look after your child while you work or if you're sick, then you should not have a child.

Being a parent has been reduced to a thing that people can improvise or "they'll figure it out". That's insane. That is actual mental delusion. If you aren't prepared for the massive responsibility of raising another human being, then be fukking honest with yourself and just don't. If you fukk up, you won't just ruin your life, you'll ruin theirs and the lives of other people.
 

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People get offended by the idea of a father not liking his kids.

But hey sometimes kids can be bad people, and a parent can dislike them as a result.

Better than the parents of school shooters acting like their kids are angels who can do no wrong. and letting everybody elses kids suffer as a result.

What i need to know before i start piling on and calling him a deadbeat dad is what has he done for his kids despite not liking them.
He might not get along with them, but he still has an 18 year obligation to each of them at minimum
 

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Second comment was dumb. We literally have a term for bad fathers (deadbeat dads) and a childish term for people whose psychological development has been ruined by them ( daddy issues)

He's a whole coward and it is funny seeing him get ratio'd on his own comments section. One thing that I'm really happy to see from Gen Z and young millennials is the wide spread acceptance of prioritizing mental health and sexual hygiene. Teen pregnancies are lower with zoomers. They're less likely to use hard drugs, they're more likely to invest and they focus on being healthy before considering adding children into their lives.

"Everyone else is doing it and i don't want to miss out"
"I'll be too old"
"I'm at that age and my family expects it"

These are all insufficient reasons to bring a child into this world. If you don't know what you're getting into and what you're doing, and if you have no support from people who will look after your child while you work or if you're sick, then you should not have a child.

Being a parent has been reduced to a thing that people can improvise or "they'll figure it out". That's insane. That is actual mental delusion. If you aren't prepared for the massive responsibility of raising another human being, then be fukking honest with yourself and just don't. If you fukk up, you won't just ruin your life, you'll ruin theirs and the lives of other people.
the are risk averse in all areas of life its not "a good thing" it's not that they planned this. they are socially awkward. Yes there less teenage pregnancies but there's radicalized incels. shyt like that. it's not balanced just the other side of it. They are stressed about the cost of living and have delayed maturity they are not "focused on health and thus not adding children"

You have a positive outlook but these were not conscious changes they are forced by the environment of the times they live in.
 
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