Only been in 2 real relationships but they were each with women on opposite sides of the spectrum. One was a stripper/bop/hoe.
Honestly the hoe wasn't a terrible person, she was just a hoe. She would try and spoil me, buy me things, do anything I asked her during sex. But, she had a fantasy in her head though I wasn't trying to be apart of.
Then I always just had it in the back of my head "damn she so bopped out on me, how I know she won't bop for other nikkas just like me". Had to stop fukking with her.
I was like 20-21 then, looking back honestly I was insecure, but I don't regret it. We weren't a good fit for each other and we both ended up with better matches.
This is the thing about women who are actually sluts. They aren't bad people. Some of the nicest ladies you can meet and be friends with. They can be smart, political, have great grades, have class, be knowledgeable and have the heart of gold.
But... there was a reason she slept with so many men. In a relationship, you can trigger it. For mines, she had daddy issues. He used to cheat and beat her mother. Now he loved and would kill for my ex but his treatment of her mom really fukked her. Her first sexual relation was getting raped by a nikka. She went to the cops and he was locked up for rape but the damage was damning.
Then you add the day to day which usually fukks damaged people. For her, she was too insecure, wanted to show me off like a treasure, would bring up random whore-war stories. Mainly like, can you believe this nikka called me a hoe?
Me: We would just talking about UGA Football, where is this coming from?
Like women with hoe history can't help snitching on themselves. It might be where they blame a nikka but you like, why I needed to know this again. Even when good girls commit dirt, they realize when and when not to add to the fire. It's just not worth it but whores feel some type of way, they always do.
They also want to cheat or at least think about cheating when the relationship is going south. I notice this far too often with even the loose ends. They always wanted to cheat when it got tough. They just didn't want to or know how to work through difficult periods in a relationship. Part of the reason I think a lot of men feel you can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
I feel like this might be true for men as well but men faithfulness isn't as high on the list for women as it is for men especially if you got security and control down to a science.
