Brehs that are married, what happens when you crave new p*ssy?

[peppe]

Yall need to get away from each other. Y’all are enabling each other. If you cared about each other for real you would be telling each other NOT to cheat. God forbid they have kids too.

If the sex is “vanilla” then be upfront with your spouse and spice it up or introduce new things to your sex life and see how they respond. To me, cheating is something you can only TRY to justify when your spouse is withholding sex for an extended period of time. Outside of that, you’re just being grimey and you shouldn’t have gotten married.

I'm not gonna babysit, some of them are handsome gang and p*ssy be throwing at them

Once the alcohol kicks in that dog comes out and nikkas just scurry like rats. Can't count how many times we had a boys night and after a while I'm just alone because everyone is out hunting for p*ssy

It's cheaper to keep her then leave her, we all tried to spice things up some chicks are just not with it when the only thing that's wrong is the sex it would be stupid to blow everything up so brehs rather cheat once in a while and keep a happy home.

 

[Prodyson]

regards to the whole holding each other accountable thing, it sounds virtuous in theory, but in reality nikkas will flat out debate you. I learned in my late 20s that you can argue with a man till your blue in the face but what he does when he goes home is completely up to himand people aren't willing to budge when they're set in their ways (especially in your 30s)


Its also tricky when you dont know the entire intricacies of a dudes relationship outside of what hes told you. Sometimes people forget, leave out things intentionally, or hide things out of respect of their relationship. This is why I try to only observe and keep my mouth shut. I am not a fly on a wall and I also dont know if this is a marriage/relationship on the brink of ending.

I personally like a hands-off policy because you need to let people make their own mistakes and learn from them. I've gotten pulled over so many damn times that at one point I forced myself to practice safer driving. I still struggle every now and then and I've had friends get mad and annoyed but eventually I had to learn on my own and I learned by literally making these mistakes.

I feel where you’re coming from. You don’t want to be all in your boy’s business and you don’t know all the details either. But I’ll say this. If my boy is out here living recklessly, I’m letting him know my stance. He can take it or leave it. But if he leaves it, then I gotta distance myself from him. Cause that type of stuff will come back and mess up YOUR relationship because he’s making selfish decisions. Have my wife looking at me funny cause I was out with you while you was out doing dirt. Plus, your wife not about to be calling me asking where you were and if you were with me at such and such time. Nope… I was at home with MY wife chilling being bored drinking an old fashioned, lol.

I can’t do drama and unnecessary stress.

 

[DrBanneker]

Keep yourself out of compromising situations with other women too.

This is honestly 75% of the battle. If you keep yourselves out of dangerous situations, you can manage. How many idiots have blown up their marriage just to go for "friendly drinks" or dinner with a co-worker or girl. If you ain't ok with your spouse doing it, don't do it.

Try something new with your wife in the sack, have a couples night, hey beating your meat is 100x better than stepping out on your family.

And remember, if you do have a side chick, maybe 10% of your time is fukking her. The rest is evasion, guilt, and typical relationship bullshyt.

The only guys I have ever seen happy to break a marriage are not guys who crave new p*ssy but people who were married to a terrible woman and if you are in that situation break it off first, don't cheat.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

It's crazy how dudes tell you to cheat, but complain when black women say all black men ain't shyt

 

[BigMan]

We just made 22 yrs and definitely don't have those problems, more like the opposite. That's a shame and I say that from the bottom of my heart.

22 years

I thought you was like 35

Congrats to you and yours

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

Craving new p*ssy is natural. But if you have to weigh that against possibly losing your family.

 

[Swirv]

fukk side chicks

Do not trust them. Tell your wife you want something new and see what she says. Otherwise, just beat off and call it a day.

 

[prime]

Im glad I can get this off my chest I’m not married yet but In a long term relationship with 3 kids and honestly I don’t crave new puzzy anymore like that but my Kryptonite is my old chubby big booty Mexican who gave me the best sex I ever had she works at Walmart by my crib everytime I see her my dikk instantly gets hard She hit me up the other day on fb messenger saying she miss my dikk im fighting hard right now not to fukk her i love my girl but this shyt Is fukking hard

 

[HarlemHottie]

22 years

I thought you was like 35

Congrats to you and yours

You flatter me... or you're calling me immature.

Turned 42 today. And thank you.

 

[Cakebatter]

Watch porn with your wife and expand your playbook. Wife and I look at Porn like a menu. We don't like everything in it, but we always find something worth trying.

The whole Swinger Lifestyle thing was created for that predicament. Thread lightly, though.

 

[jdubnyce]

Let's be honest, moral individuals please
If you are married, I assume you made a commitment to that one person
If you ever feel the need to step out of that commitment, and absolutely need to act on it, end the relationship first
Do not cheat
I say this as a married man

 

[BigMan]

You flatter me... or you're calling me immature.

Turned 42 today. And thank you.

I gotta call you Ms HarlemHottie now

 

[jdubnyce]

Im glad I can get this off my chest I’m not married yet but In a long term relationship with 3 kids and honestly I don’t crave new puzzy anymore like that but my Kryptonite is my old chubby big booty Mexican who gave me the best sex I ever had she works at Walmart by my crib everytime I see her my dikk instantly gets hard She hit me up the other day on fb messenger saying she miss my dikk im fighting hard right now not to fukk her i love my girl but this shyt Is fukking hard

Shop at target

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Cheat but don’t get caught

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

This is why swinging, polyamory, and “open” marriages are becoming less taboo.

To answer OP’s question. Pick up an active hobby where you will not have the energy or care to even think about it.