Brehs, can you take a woman serious if you smashed her on the first night? Like eventually end up in a relationship?

[Born2BKing]

Would you worry about all the other nikkas who prolly hit it first night? Or do you think you just that nikka, so it was prolly the first time it happened. Lettuce discuss.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

it’s childish to “not take her seriously” because she let you crack the first night if you was actively going for it the first night..

Just means she was comfortable enough with you to open up..

If she throwing it first night without you actively trying then yes I wouldn’t take her serious as she most likely like that with everyone that shows interest

 

[YvrzTrvly]

I'm smashing but I'm also dashing

 

[The BasedFather]

Smashed my ex the first day. Then that morning


Had to leave her ass alone because she was nuts. Mouth was fiya though

 

[Luke Cage]

The only problem about smashing when you first meet. is that you might not click otherwise afterwards,
Like you discover the next day she is in a living situation you don't vibe with.

 

[CarltonJunior]

Depends on what we mean by serious

I wouldn't cuff, but if shes cool enough we can have an ongoing situation for a good lil minute

 

[Black White Sox Hat]

Can’t really blame her I just look that damn good.There’s some good women just eager to escape with daddy.

 

[UpAndComing]

Every 1st date isn't built the same

- You can have one situation where you have been talking to a woman for 3 weeks prior either because of both having busy schedules, or she lives 3-4 hours away and you built up a chemistry, maybe some video facetime here and there, etc

- Then you got the situation where you met on Tinder and meeting the next day

Both different situations lol

 

[BunchePark]

Y'all both loose with it

 

[Kenny West]

It depends on the details. If she is really infatuated and we have a good vibe vs she just getting slid out of habit.

Making me wait is not some guarantee that I would take you serious anyway. Depending on your underlying reason for it (trying to put me in a fallback/cleanup man position) it's grounds for dismissal just as quickly as the "easy" ones.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[CarltonJunior]

Every 1st date isn't built the same

- You can have one situation where you have been talking to a woman for 3 weeks prior either because of both having busy schedules, or she lives 3-4 hours away and you built up a chemistry, maybe some video facetime here and there, etc

- Then you got the situation where you met on Tinder and meeting the next day

Both different situations lol

That's true but I assumed OP meant the 2nd one when I posted

If it's the 1st then yeah that's different fosho

 

[Kasper KArr]

I could. I'm a fly young nxgga, of course women wanna sleep with me immediately. I won't hold it against her.

fukk outta here tranny lover!

 

[VertigoKnight]

Depends on the circumstances. And how the date went beforehand.

If the chemistry is there and it felt right, all good. Better than her holding off to try and prove she's a 'good' woman.

Me personally, I like to make out on a first date. But not go all the way, but close enough.

A woman artificially pretending to be chaste is boring.

 

[TRUEST]

You can’t control attraction chemistry. I have dated women i fuccked on the first date. The issue is, if y’all break up or y’all get in a fight your mind will do a number on you. You’ll start to wonder if she gave it up on the first night to you, what’s stopping her from doing it during y’all “breakups” or little lovers “tiffs”.

And that can have you dismantled, psychologically.